*A note from LFCS: We featured an article in the Fall edition of the Spirit newsletter, which unfortunately had a few errors. We are honored to share with you the incredible story of Nellie Miller and her family’s multi-generational impact, which changed the lives of countless children and families and has strengthened our community for over 80 years!
Nellie Miller (Grandmother of our dear LFCS Friend & lifelong supporter, Rae Mohrmann) – was the first of five generations to become involved with Lutheran Family and Children’s Services, formerly known as the Lutheran Children’s Home in Des Peres, Missouri. Born in 1890, Nellie was the youngest of seven kids, as well as the only girl, so she had no choice but to grow up tough with six older brothers! She started her college journey right after high school, a bold move for a woman of her time. Nellie was determined to get an education and have a meaningful life.
After college, Nellie went on to marry William A. Miller who owned Miller Elevator Co. Unfortunately Nellie’s husband William passed away in 1939, leaving her a widow. Because Nellie’s husband died during the Great Depression, she knew she had to be a fighter and get a job to survive on her own.
Despite having a college education, Nellie’s job opportunities were limited. She eventually found work as a matron at the Lutheran Children’s Home. She began her journey at the orphanage by performing cleaning duties and steadily advancing as a cook. Nellie worked extremely hard and became a reliable, loving force in the lives of the children of the orphanage, and became integral in the daily operations of the organization.
The Miller Family – far right – with the kids at the Lutheran Orphange- Circa 1940’s
Through all of her hard work and commitment, one thing always remained the same – her love and impeccable care of the children at the orphanage. Her steadfast compassion and commitment to children and families spanned three decades, culminating in her retirement as Assistant Director at the age of 78. Today, Nellie’s profound impact on LFCS is commemorated with a plaque at Des Peres City Hall, which once housed the orphanage she dedicated her life to. In the late 1960s, the Lutheran Children’s Home became Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS).
Nellie Miller at the Orphanage – 1965
Continuing her legacy, Nellie’s children also devoted their time and efforts to LFCS, carrying on her commitment to helping others. Nellie’s granddaughter, Rae, would often join her parents and visited the orphanage to volunteer. Those early memories of giving back introduced a love of service and a lifelong commitment to honoring the LFCS mission- one to which she is still very much committed. Rae’s son Gregg and his wife Kara are also dedicated supporters, and her hope is for her grandchildren to become the next generation to follow in the family tradition of serving the children and families in our community.
This family’s story is a testament to the enduring power of giving. For over 80 years, they have dedicated their time, talents, and resources to empower children and families, helping them overcome challenges today to build a better tomorrow. Their legacy of service is an inspiration to us all.