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Expectant/ Birth Parents: Considering Adoption

At LFCS, we understand that considering adoption is an extremely personal decision. Our compassionate case workers are here to listen and empower you to make the best choice for you and your child. We provide education and non-judgmental counseling to support your needs and wishes whether you choose to parent or make an adoption plan.

An overview of what to expect when making an adoption plan can be found here.
This information is also available in Spanish here.

For 24/7 support, text or call 800-785-8546 and our experienced staff will help you understand your options and how the adoption process works. All of our services are free and confidential.

How We’re Different

  • We offer the convenience of local services, with offices across Missouri.
  • Caseworkers at LFCS will explain all your options with no pressure to choose a particular plan.
  • LFCS is a social services agency that can meet your needs, regardless of the plan you choose.
  • We provide expectant/birth parents with their own caseworkers to focus on their unique needs and rights.
  • We provide support for open adoption so birth parents can have ongoing information about their child’s wellbeing.
  • LFCS offers ongoing support after adoption placements are made.

Commonly Asked Questions

Why should I consider adoption?
Adoption is a life-giving option for you and your baby that is based in love and compassion. By choosing adoption, you are choosing a loving family to care for your child and providing your child with a safe and stable home where they can thrive.

The professional caseworkers at LFCS will support your needs and wishes as you make your decision, connect with an adoptive family, plan for your baby’s birth, and decide what level of openness (contact with the adoptive family) you prefer for your adoption plan. We will continue to guide you through your journey for as long as you need.

How is an adoptive family selected for my baby?

At LFCS, we encourage our clients to be as involved with the selection process as they wish. A person making an adoption plan can take part in selecting the adoptive family and can determine the degree of contact, if any, they would like to have with the adoptive family. Click here to see families who are waiting to adopt a child.

What is openness in adoption?

Openness in adoption refers to the type and amount of interaction between birth family, adoptive family, and the adoptee. Contact among all parties may involve shared updates and pictures or in person visits. Openness allows the birth family, adoptive family, and the adoptee to maintain contact and build a relationship over time.

What if I change my mind during the adoption process?

We understand that many factors must be considered when faced with such an important decision. Pregnant women considering adoption often re-evaluate their plan as they move through the adoption process. The caring social workers at LFCS will support you throughout your pregnancy and delivery, whether you choose to parent or make an adoption plan.

Post-Adoption Services

Adoption is a life-long experience, not just a moment in time. Your caseworker will stay in contact with you and help you follow up on the goals you set during your pregnancy. They will also help you cope with your feelings about the adoption, including the grief and loss that is normal to feel. We also invite you to participate in Birth Mothers Support Services offered by LFCS.

LFCS has a private Facebook group where birth mothers can connect and get support from other birth mothers, who truly understand what they are experiencing. Both in-person and online support group meetings and activities are also announced on this page.

Searching for an Adopted Child

LFCS can help those searching for information regarding an adoption that occurred in Missouri. LFCS maintains both our own records and those of Provident Counseling (a.k.a. Family and Children’s Services). The following documents outline a step-by-step process to assist you during your search. All search requests must be in writing and persons must be 18 years of age or older to request a search.

Informational Search Letter
LFCS Privacy Practices
Missouri Adoption Law FAQ
Missouri Adoption Information Registry
Search Related Information

Please note: All information concerning an adoption finalized in Missouri is protected by state law.  As of August 28, 2011, the consent of the adoptive parents to search is no longer required.

View our Adoption-focused resources here.

We know that the decisions you are facing are difficult, but you are not alone. Contact us today at [email protected] or call 866-326-5327 for a consultation, and our experienced staff will help you understand your options and how the adoption process works.

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If you would like to learn more about our services or have questions about the process, please email [email protected] or call us at 866-326-LFCS (5327).
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