Expectant/ Birth Parents: Considering Adoption
At LFCS, we understand that considering adoption is an extremely personal decision. Our compassionate case workers are here to listen and empower you to make the best choice for you and your child. We provide education and non-judgmental counseling to support your needs and wishes whether you choose to parent or make an adoption plan.
An overview of what to expect when making an adoption plan can be found here. This information is also available in Spanish here.
For 24/7 support, text or call 800-785-8546 and our experienced staff will help you understand your options and how the adoption process works. All of our services are free and confidential.
How We’re Different
- We offer the convenience of local services, with offices across Missouri.
- Caseworkers at LFCS will explain all your options with no pressure to choose a particular plan.
- LFCS is a social services agency that can meet your needs, regardless of the plan you choose.
- We provide expectant/birth parents with their own caseworkers to focus on their unique needs and rights.
- We provide support for open adoption so birth parents can have ongoing information about their child’s wellbeing.
- LFCS offers ongoing support after adoption placements are made.
Commonly Asked Questions
Why should I consider adoption?
The professional caseworkers at LFCS will support your needs and wishes as you make your decision, connect with an adoptive family, plan for your baby’s birth, and decide what level of openness (contact with the adoptive family) you prefer for your adoption plan. We will continue to guide you through your journey for as long as you need.
How is an adoptive family selected for my baby?
At LFCS, we encourage our clients to be as involved with the selection process as they wish. A person making an adoption plan can take part in selecting the adoptive family and can determine the degree of contact, if any, they would like to have with the adoptive family. Click here to see families who are waiting to adopt a child.
What is openness in adoption?
Openness in adoption refers to the type and amount of interaction between birth family, adoptive family, and the adoptee. Contact among all parties may involve shared updates and pictures or in person visits. Openness allows the birth family, adoptive family, and the adoptee to maintain contact and build a relationship over time.
What if I change my mind during the adoption process?
We understand that many factors must be considered when faced with such an important decision. Pregnant women considering adoption often re-evaluate their plan as they move through the adoption process. The caring social workers at LFCS will support you throughout your pregnancy and delivery, whether you choose to parent or make an adoption plan.
Post-Adoption Services
Adoption is a life-long experience, not just a moment in time. Your caseworker will stay in contact with you and help you follow up on the goals you set during your pregnancy. They will also help you deal with your feelings about the adoption, including the grief and loss that is normal to feel. We also invite you to participate in Birth Parent Support Services offered by LFCS.
LFCS has a private Facebook group where birth parents can connect and get support from other birth parents, who truly understand what they are experiencing. Both in-person and online support group meetings and activities are also announced on this page.
To be connected to Post-Adoption services, contact us today at [email protected] or call 866-326-5327, and our experienced staff will be happy to help.
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