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		<title>Why Do You Serve? Creating Lasting Values for Missouri Families</title>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Our social workers are the living embodiment of <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/values-value-and-feeling-valued-a-fresh-lens-for-lfcs-in-the-new-year/">our values</a>. They lead with integrity. They treat every person as valued. And through steady, consistent presence, they create lasting value in the lives of children and families across Missouri.</p>
<p>No one chooses this work because it is easy. They choose it because something in them will not look away. From kitchen tables to courtrooms to quiet therapy offices, they show up in the moments that matter most, often when families are carrying more than they ever expected.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.socialworkers.org/News/Social-Work-Month/Social-Work-Month-2026">National Social Work Month</a> gives us a chance to recognize the profession. It is also an invitation to hear from the people on the front lines every day.</p>
<p>We asked five members of our <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/parenting-services/">LFCS team</a> a simple question: Why do you serve? Their answers remind us that social work is not just a career. It is a calling.</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p><strong>Voices From Our Team</strong></p>
<p>“I became a social worker because I wanted to have a career where I could help and serve others in some way. I think that we all experience times in our lives when we need a little bit of help, and I love getting to be that support person for clients. Sometimes we just need someone in our corner who we know is rooting for us and standing by our side, and it is so fulfilling to me to get to do that every day!”</p>
<p><em>Erin Doughten, MSW, LMSW, Social Worker</em></p>
<p>&#8220;I chose Social Work as my avenue to pursue clinical therapy because the social work code of ethics outlines all of my personal beliefs and I appreciate how the discipline considers the client as a person, their environment, and how social systems impact them.&#8221;</p>
<p><em>Stephanie Kippenberger, LCSW, Behavioral Health Supervisor</em></p>
<p>“My life has been better since I became a social worker- as I am able to meet people where they are at in life, walk beside them, and offer support in a non-judgmental fashion, while helping them to discover their own strength from within.”</p>
<p><em>Ruth Downs, LCSW, Lead Therapist</em></p>
<p>&#8220;I became a social worker because I believe every person deserves to be seen, heard, and valued, especially in their hardest seasons. I was drawn to this field by a deep commitment to advocacy, healing, and creating systems that truly support children, families, and communities. Social work allows me to combine compassion with leadership to create meaningful, lasting changes in the lives of others.&#8221;</p>
<p><em>Anastasia Wexler, LCSW, Assistant Director of Behavioral Health</em></p>
<p>&#8220;Social work became a later-in-life dream of mine when I realized that supporting and empowering people was my biggest passion. I love loving on people, but what I have discovered is that being a social worker goes way beyond doing something I love. My work is making me a humble and compassionate human who gets the privilege of knowing everyday heroes doing the hard work of getting up each day and trying again..&#8221;</p>
<p><em>Kathleen Gamble, LMSW, Provisionally Licensed Therapist</em></p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p><strong>What That Calling Looks Like in Real Life</strong></p>
<p>The heart behind this work shows up in quiet, consistent ways. In 2025, our team served families in every corner of Missouri, walking alongside them during some of life’s most difficult seasons.</p>
<p><strong>Our 2025 Impact:</strong></p>
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<li>4,600+ households served statewide.</li>
<li>65,000+ service engagements, including <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/counseling/">Counseling</a>, <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://lfcsmo.org/child-welfare/">Adoption and Foster Care Support</a>, <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://lfcsmo.org/pregnancy-support/">Pregnancy Support</a>, and advocacy.</li>
<li>94% of clients achieved documented progress toward safety, stability, or emotional wellness goals.</li>
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<p>These numbers are not just statistics. Explore our <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/newsroom/"><strong>Annual Report</strong></a> to see the full picture of what your support makes possible. Whether through these core services or our specialized <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://lfcsmo.org/parenting-education/"><strong>Parenting Education</strong></a> programs, our team turns compassion into measurable, lasting change.</p>
<p><strong>One Mission. Five Regions. One Calling.</strong></p>
<p>While these professionals serve in different communities, they are united by the same values. Social work is demanding work. It asks for patience, resilience, and the willingness to sit with uncertainty. But seeing a child feel safe, a parent regain confidence, or a family move toward stability makes every challenge worth it.</p>
<p>We are incredibly proud of the compassion, professionalism, and steady leadership our team brings to Missouri families every single day.</p>
<p><strong>Help Us Continue the Mission</strong></p>
<p>If these voices moved you this Social Work Month, consider making a gift to ensure we can reach even more families in 2026.</p>
<p><a href="https://nam12.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Flfcsmo.org%2Fdonate%2F&amp;data=05%7C02%7CGreg.Severin%40lfcs.org%7Ca7f5be97d27e4e25b37c08de69abe42d%7C7be5c29366fb4489800839276b2c0daa%7C0%7C0%7C639064384154879655%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJFbXB0eU1hcGkiOnRydWUsIlYiOiIwLjAuMDAwMCIsIlAiOiJXaW4zMiIsIkFOIjoiTWFpbCIsIldUIjoyfQ%3D%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=bkHfIlzzBetunKAzz6P5RP36nvNulUUTcq54uqtPWjs%3D&amp;reserved=0"><strong>Make a Gift to LFCS</strong></a></p>
<p><strong>Join the Team</strong></p>
<p>Are you looking for a mission-driven culture where your work is valued and your “why” matters? We are always looking for passionate people to join our statewide family.</p>
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			</div><p>The post <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/why-do-you-serve-creating-lasting-values-for-missouri-families/">Why Do You Serve? Creating Lasting Values for Missouri Families</a> first appeared on <a href="https://lfcsmo.org">Lutheran Family and Children's Services of Missouri</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>The work we do at <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/donate/">Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS)</a> is rooted in purpose and sustained by the real progress of the families we serve. As we begin 2026, we know the challenges facing children and families are growing, especially as <a href="https://www.krcu.org/news/2024-11-11/mo-residents-believe-family-focused-economy-is-key-to-well-being">rising costs for essentials</a> like food and housing leave many Missouri families just one unexpected bill away from a crisis. Meeting these needs requires not only compassion, but a straightforward approach to how we use our time and resources.</p>
<p>In 2026, we’re embracing three interconnected ideas: <strong>Values, Value, and Valued.</strong> It’s a fresh lens for how we think about our work and our mission. Rather than just a formal theme, this framework helps us focus on what matters most: staying grounded in our principles, maximizing community impact, and ensuring that every person connected to LFCS continues to feel respected and appreciated.</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2><span style="color: #ff9900;"><strong>Our Foundation: Clear, Consistent VALUES</strong></span></h2>
<p>Our values are the fundamental principles that guide every decision, from how we support our team to how we serve our clients. For more than <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/who-we-are/our-history/">150 years</a>, LFCS has responded to the changing needs of Missouri families, guided by compassion, dignity, and adaptability.</p>
<p>On the ground, these values mean showing up for a family when things are at their most difficult. It means treating every person with the respect they deserve and giving families the tools they need to build their own path forward. When we do that, every interaction reflects the heart of our mission.</p>
<p>We saw these values showcased through a recent feature story on <a href="https://www.stlpr.org/government-politics-issues/2025-10-29/new-director-placement-missouri-foster-kids">St. Louis Public Radio</a>, where we discussed the urgent need for foster families and our commitment to fixing the system that supports Missouri’s children. These shared values anchor our decisions and ensure that our legacy of service continues to evolve. You can see how these principles shape our mission on our <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/">Who We Are</a> page.</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #ff9900;"><strong>Our People: Making Sure Everyone Feels VALUED</strong></span></h2>
<p>The work of caring for others is demanding and stays with you long after the day is done.</p>
<p>In 2026, we’re putting even more focus on taking care of the people who take care of Missouri. Our focus was recently spotlighted in a news feature <a href="https://www.stlamerican.com/your-health-matters/social-workers-help-keep-st-louis-healthy/">celebrating National Social Work Month</a>, where LFCS was recognized for the vital role our team plays in stabilizing the St. Louis community.</p>
<p>In 2026, we are deepening our commitment to the people who care for Missouri. A recent news feature <a href="https://www.stlamerican.com/your-health-matters/social-workers-help-keep-st-louis-healthy/">celebrating National Social Work Month</a> recognized LFCS and others who play vital roles in the St. Louis community.</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>But we know that recognition is not enough. It must be backed by the kind of advocacy that creates lasting change. That’s why we have led efforts to address the <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/MHW_35_27.pdf">“quiet crisis” facing Missouri nonprofits</a>, pushing for the health and sustainability of social service agencies.</p>
<p>Just as we advocate for our team, we are equally committed to ensuring every client feels valued, meaning everyone who walks through our door is welcomed with dignity, listened to without judgment, and seen as a person, not a case number.</p>
<p>If you’re looking for a place where your work matters and you are valued, please <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/">explore our career opportunities</a>.</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #ff9900;"><strong>Moving Forward Together</strong></span></h2>
<p>Strong <strong>Values</strong> lead to greater <strong>Value</strong>, which ensures every person connected to LFCS feels genuinely <strong>Valued</strong>. As we head into the new year, our three Vs provide a road map, helping us move forward with even more purpose.</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #ff9900;"><strong>Stay Connected with LFCS</strong></span></h2>
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<li>See what we do year-round: <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/">lfcsmo.org</a></li>
<li>Support Our Mission: If you share our <strong>Values</strong>, consider <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/donate/">making a gift today</a> to help us deliver even more <strong>Value</strong> to Missouri families.</li>
<li>Follow the journey: <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://facebook.com/LFCSmo">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://instagram.com/LFCS_Missouri">Instagram</a> | <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=https://www.linkedin.com/company/lutheran-family-and-children%27s-services-of-missouri/">LinkedIn</a></li>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2025 14:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Across Missouri—and the country—nonprofits are facing an urgent and unprecedented reality. Operational costs are rising due to inflation, while government contracts and fixed grants have lost their purchasing power. Organizations like Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Missouri are being asked to do more with less, at the exact moment when more people than ever are turning to us for help.</p>
<p>We launched the <strong>Meet The Moment</strong> campaign to rally support around this growing crisis, because the truth is: when nonprofits can’t meet the needs of their communities, real lives are impacted.</p>
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<h2><span style="color: #ff9900;"><strong>A Sector Under Pressure</strong></span></h2>
<p>We are not alone in this struggle. According to the <em>2025 State of the Nonprofit Sector Report</em>:</p>
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<li><strong>65% of nonprofits</strong> report that staffing shortages are impeding their ability to deliver services.</li>
<li><strong>77% have seen an increase in demand</strong> for their programs.</li>
<li><strong>Three out of four</strong> have been forced to reduce staff or cut programs.</li>
<li><strong>87% report increased demand for mental health services</strong>, even while struggling to find the staff to provide them.</li>
<li>Nearly <strong>half lack the funds</strong> needed to meet client demand.</li>
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<p>Meanwhile, the communities we serve are experiencing the same economic stressors. Families are struggling to pay rent, put</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>food on the table, and access mental health care. Without adequate support, these challenges ripple into our broader society—increasing emergency room visits, straining school systems, and deepening systemic inequality.<strong></strong></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #ff9900;"><strong>How LFCS Has Responded</strong></span></h2>
<p>Despite these challenges, LFCS has not stood still. Over the past several years, we have made bold, intentional decisions to grow in response to community need:</p>
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<li><strong>Expanded in-person capacity</strong> through office renovations, allowing us to see more clients face-to-face.</li>
<li><strong>Opened new offices in Kansas City</strong>, extending our reach to children and families in Northwest Missouri.</li>
<li><strong>Prioritized the hiring of counselors, case managers, and social workers</strong> to make sure clients are not left waiting for the help they desperately need.</li>
<li><strong>Expanded our parenting program</strong> to strengthen the family unit and reduce the risk of abuse and neglect.</li>
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<p>These changes weren’t optional. They were necessary to meet the real needs of Missouri families. But they come at a cost—and that’s where we need your help.</p>
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<p>The <strong>Meet The Moment</strong> campaign is a call to action. It’s a call to everyone who believes in the importance of mental health care, strong families, and children growing up in safe, loving homes.</p>
<p>At LFCS, we are committed to:</p>
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<li>Addressing Missouri’s mental health crisis</li>
<li>Reducing child abuse and neglect</li>
<li>Empowering clients to overcome heartbreak and trauma</li>
<li>Supporting families navigating infertility</li>
<li>Making an impact (view our <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/2024-LFCS-Annual-Report-Booklet.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="LFCS 2024 Annual Report">2024 annual report here</a> to see how)</li>
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<p>Guided by Jesus’ call to love one another, serve those in need, and be a light in the world, we are asking you to partner with us in this mission.</p>
<p><strong>Our goal is to raise $150,000 by June 30.</strong> These funds will go directly to programs that are making a difference every single day.</p>
<p>When we fail to meet the moment, our communities suffer. But when we rise together—when we choose to act—real healing happens.</p>
<p><strong>Join us. Give today. Help us Meet the Moment. </strong><a href="https://interland3.donorperfect.net/weblink/WebLink.aspx?name=E347466&amp;id=101&amp;utm_source=video2&amp;utm_medium=media&amp;utm_campaign=momentgiving" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="Meet The Moment Donation Link"><strong>Donate Today</strong></a></p></div>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Apr 2025 14:20:41 +0000</pubDate>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner">Adoption is a loving option for many families, and transracial adoption is a significant part of that landscape. While specific numbers fluctuate, it is estimated that nearly 30 percent of adoptions in the United States involve children of a different race or ethnicity than their adoptive parents. “Those numbers underscore the importance of resources and support for families navigating the unique aspects of transracial adoption,” said Melani Engel, Director of Adoption Services for LFCS. &#8220;It&#8217;s a journey that requires understanding and openness to embrace the challenges and beauty of blending cultures.&#8221; To guide families considering or navigating transracial adoption, LFCS has created a checklist of what adoptive parents should know to help their child feel loved, accepted, and thrive in their care: </div>
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<p><span style="color: #ff9900;">√ <strong>Normalize your child’s culture at home. </strong></span> Fill your home with toys, books, movies, and music that authentically reflect the child’s heritage.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff9900;">√ <strong>Prioritize cultural experiences</strong>.</span> Attend multicultural events, eat at ethnic restaurants, and shop from brands that support your child’s cultural community.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff9900;">√ <strong>Seek out culturally relevant professionals.</strong></span> When selecting hair stylists, medical providers, daycares, faith communities, schools, and extracurricular activities, prioritize those who share, understand, and/or value your child’s cultural background and can support cultural identity.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff9900;">√ <strong>Build a cultural community</strong>.</span> Look for mentors who share your child’s cultural background and build friendships with families who share similar heritage as your child or who understand the nuances of transracial adoption.</p></div>
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<p><span style="color: #ff9900;">√ <strong>Learn about challenges common to your child’s cultural community</strong>.</span> Educate yourself about racism, discrimination, micro-aggressions, and other challenges your child may face as they grow older. Find age-appropriate ways to teach them how to respond when they experience negative comments or attitudes.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff9900;"><strong>√ </strong><strong>Look to the birth family for cultural support</strong>.</span> Nurturing a positive post-adoption relationship with the birth family can be a valuable source of information and connection to the child&#8217;s heritage.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff9900;"><strong>√ </strong><strong>Seek professional help</strong>.</span> LFCS offers a variety of adoption services for families. Consider expert guidance from our counselors and therapists.</p></div>
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<p style="text-align: center;">In addition, to ensure that expectant and birth parents have a diverse pool of families to consider when making an adoption plan, LFCS is currently welcoming adoptive families, with a special emphasis on African American and Hispanic families, to help meet the needs of children in our community. If you are interested in learning more, please contact us for more information about the adoption process and available support services. For information about LFCS’s adoption services, call 866-326-LFCS or email <a href="mailto:help@lfcs.org">help@lfcs.org</a>.</p></div>
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<h2><span style="color: #ff9900;"><strong>A Commitment to Transforming Lives</strong></span></h2>
<p><span>“Our social workers are the backbone of our organization and the heart of our mission,” said Mike Duggar, President and Chief Executive Officer of LFCS. “We are honored to celebrate their tremendous contributions during March and throughout the year.”</span></p>
<p><span>LFCS social workers play a vital role in providing critical services such as adoption, pregnancy support, parenting services, and mental health counseling. In 2024 alone, they have made a remarkable impact:</span></p>
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<li><span>Provided nearly </span><span><strong>67,333 parenting service hours</strong></span><span>.</span></li>
<li><span>Provided approximately </span><span><strong>25,719 pregnancy service hours</strong></span><span>.</span></li>
<li><span>Provided </span><span><strong>3,347 adoption service hours</strong></span><span> to connect children with loving families.</span></li>
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<p><span>These numbers reflect the dedication and hard work of LFCS social workers in ensuring families receive the support they need to thrive.</span></p>
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<h2><span style="color: #ff9900;"><strong>The Essential Role of Social Workers</strong></span></h2>
<p><span>According to the National Association of Social Workers, millions of families across the United States face challenges that impact their well-being, from economic hardship to mental health struggles. Social workers serve as advocates, helping individuals navigate complex systems and access the resources they need.</span></p>
<p><span>One such advocate is </span><span><strong>Latizia Williams</strong></span><span>, who has been with LFCS for </span><span><strong>18 years</strong></span><span> and now serves as Assistant Director of Parenting Services.</span></p>
<p data-pm-slice="1 1 &#091;&#093;"><span>“Every day in social work is different, and that’s what I love about it,” said Williams. “From helping a child find a loving adoptive home to supporting a parent struggling with addiction, we have the chance to make a tangible difference in people&#8217;s lives. Knowing that my work contributes to stronger families and healthier communities is what motivates me.”</span></p></div>
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<p><span>Throughout National Social Worker Appreciation Month, LFCS encourages individuals, donors, partners, and the community to show their support. Here’s how you can get involved:</span></p>
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<p><span><strong>Show your appreciation</strong></span><span> – Thank a social worker for their service or share your gratitude on social media using </span><span><strong>#CompassionPlusAction #SWMonth2025 #SocialWorkMonth</strong></span><span>.</span></p>
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<p><span>Social workers at LFCS go above and beyond every day to ensure families receive the support they need. This month, and throughout the year, let’s recognize and honor their invaluable contributions.</span></p>
<p><span>For more information about LFCS services, visit </span><a href="https://lfcsmo.org/" disabled="disabled"><span><strong>lfcsmo.org</strong></span></a><span>, call </span><span><strong>866-326-LFCS</strong></span><span>, or email </span><span><a disabled="disabled"><strong>help@lfcs.org</strong></a></span><span>.</span></p></div>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Nov 2024 17:23:16 +0000</pubDate>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner">Michael and Sarah Hanf’s adoption journey is a powerful testament to the importance of openness in adoption. Their path, like many who pursue adoption, was filled with both hope and heartbreak. When the Hanfs first reached out to LFCS, they were navigating the emotional ups and downs of trying to build their family.</p>
<p>“We continued to try to have kids, but after multiple miscarriages we found out we had infertility issues,” Sarah recalls. “We went through several medical procedures, and after five years we were able to have our oldest child, Morgan.” After experiencing the joy of parenthood, they hoped to have another child. However, doctors told them they had only a 3% chance of success if they attempted the same lengthy process. Knowing how painful and unlikely that process would be, Michael and Sarah chose adoption.</p>
<p>Their initial attempts to adopt, however, were marked by disappointment. They connected with another agency but found the experience frustrating and costly. “That was crushing,” Sarah shares. “We were very discouraged… we felt like we were just another number.” After similarly negative experiences with multiple other agencies, they reached out to LFCS in desperation. What they found was a team that truly cared.</div>
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<p>One of the most impactful aspects of LFCS’s approach was the focus on openness in adoption. “They had panels where we could hear from birth parents, adoptive parents, adoptees,” Sarah explains. “And that’s where we learned the most about openness.” Before this, the Hanfs only knew about closed adoptions, having seen them in their own family. “Both of my sisters were adopted,” Michael shares. “The one hesitation I had was how LFCS was encouraging open adoptions. Through the help of LFCS, we began to realize how special an open adoption can be.”</div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner">Openness in adoption has been shown to benefit all members of the adoption triad—adoptees, birth parents, and adoptive families. For adoptees, open adoption helps them understand their origins, identity, and genetic background*. It fosters a sense of connection and promotes positive feelings toward their birth parents. In fact, nearly two-thirds of respondents from the NCFA’s 2024 adoption survey identified openness as the most important factor for birth parents when selecting adoptive families**. Open adoption also creates a broader, more supportive community for the child, strengthening relationships across the triad***.</p>
<p>Through LFCS’s panels and their own research, Michael and Sarah came to embrace the idea of openness. “I see the birth family as being an important part of Olivia and Brooklynn’s sense of identity,” says Michael. Sarah agrees, adding, “They know they are loved by their birth family, but to interact and feel that love… it made the abstract concrete.”</div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>&#8220;Open adoption isn&#8217;t just something parents do when they exchange photos, send emails, share a visit. It&#8217;s a lifestyle that may feel intrusive at times, be difficult or inconvenient at other times&#8230; But knowing how to handle these situations and how to continue to make arrangements work for the child involved is paramount.&#8221;</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner">Today, Michael and Sarah have completed their family, having adopted their daughters, Olivia and Brooklynn, through LFCS. Alongside their first child, Morgan, the Hanf family is now filled with love, light, and laughter. Michael and Sarah are deeply grateful for the support they received from LFCS. “They are like part of our family now… They have just gone above and beyond more than they have ever had to do,” Sarah says. “The care that they give the birth family, the care that they give us, it means a lot to me.”</p>
<p>Through their story, the Hanfs hope to highlight the transformative power of openness in adoption and encourage others to embrace it as they did. For them, it was the key to building the forever family they had always dreamed of.</div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner">While adoption is often portrayed as a heartwarming journey filled with love and new beginnings, it is essential to acknowledge the complex emotions and grief that can accompany the process. For birth parents, the decision to place their child for adoption can be fraught with profound sadness and loss, even amidst the hope for a better future. Similarly, adoptive families may grapple with feelings of grief stemming from infertility struggles, navigating the complexities of the adoption process, or managing expectations versus reality. Understanding and addressing these layers of grief is vital in providing holistic support to all individuals involved in the adoption journey.</p>
<p>There are several types of grief that are commonly experienced within the adoption triad. Most often, people are aware of the intense grief that someone experiences when a loved one dies. This intense sadness is what some grief counselors refer to as “normal grief.” There are, however, other kinds of grief that are expereinced during adoption. Let’s examine these types more closely:</div>
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<p>This is the grief we feel when we know a loss is coming. Birth parents may feel anticipatory grief when making the adoption plan, particularly as the day of placement draws near. Birth parents in foster care may also experience this grief type once they realise their case will end in termination of rights.</div>
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<p>You can think of this as grief for someone who still exists in the world, but isn’t physically present or whose identity has changed to become someone unknown to you. The child placed for adoption is lost to their parents, even though the child may be thriving in their adoptive home. The opposite may be true for the foster-adoptee, who grieves the loss of their birth family member who is no longer allowed to live with them due to safety concerns.</div>
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<p>Sometimes grief is mixed with other emotions, particularly if the loss brought about some beneficial changes. The adopted child may feel relieved to be cared for in a safe and loving environment where their needs are consistently met, but may also feel loss for the life they might have experienced with their birth family. These mixed emotions can be difficult and confusing to navigate. </div>
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<p>Sometimes grief has a natural ending, as people are able to arrive at a season of moving forward. Other times, the person who is grieving never gains freedom from their grief in a significant way. This can be very true for the birth parent who may never stop loving their child and wishing their circumstances were different. They may feel constant reminders that the child is no longer with them and they may not be comforted by knowing the child is safe, healthy and thriving. It is common to require counseling and perhaps medical treatment for depression in order to help manage chronic grief.</div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p><strong>If you or someone you know is experiencing grief, sadness, or depression that is impacting their quality of life, considering reaching out to LFCS for counseling services. Our compassionate staff of licensed therapists can help you during this difficult season. Please contact us at 866-326-LFCS or HELP@LFCS.ORG</strong></p></div>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Nov 2023 18:36:49 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>November is National Adoption Month, a time to celebrate the transformative power of adoption and raise awareness about the need for loving families for children. Courtesy of Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS), here are some of the most current adoption statistics, including some specific to Missouri.</p>
<h2>National</h2>
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<li>114,000 children are eligible for adoption.</li>
<li>More than 50,000 children are adopted from foster care each year</li>
<li>About 100,000 children are adopted through all adoptions each year.</li>
<li>Around 700,000 children are living with adoptive parents.</li>
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<li>1 in 35 children in the United States is adopted.</li>
<li>Approximately 95% of domestic infant adoptions are considered to be open or semi-open adoptions</li>
<li>50 percent of families with adopted children also have biological children.</li>
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<h2>Statewide</h2>
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<li>There were 1,298 private adoptions in 2020 and 1,652 adoptions from foster care</li>
<li>2,677 Missouri children were waiting to be adopted in 2021.</li>
<li>The most common ages for children waiting to be adopted in Missouri is between 1-4 years old</li>
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<li>5 in 1,000 Missouri children entered foster care in 2021 (national average is 3.5 children per 1,000).</li>
<li>27 private adoptions in 2022 were conducted through LFCS.</li>
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<p>Throughout National Adoption Month, LFCS encourages individuals to learn more about the adoption process and celebrate the journey of those who chose adoption. By offering a wide range of adoption services, including counseling, education, financial assistance, and support groups, LFCS strives to create a nurturing environment for all members of the adoption triad.</p>
<p>For anyone considering adoption, we encourage you to visit <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-services">https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-services</a>. You can find comprehensive info about our adoption process, helpful resources for birth families and adoptive couples, as well as an overview of the couples currently seeking placement. If you have any questions or want to speak with one of our professional case managers, please call 866-326-LFCS (5327).</p>
<h6><em><u>Source:</u></em> <a href="https://www.aecf.org/about">The Annie E. Casey Foundation</a><u>, </u><a href="https://adoptioncouncil.org/">National Council on Adoption</a><u>,</u> <a href="https://www.hhs.gov/">U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, </a><a href="https://adoptionnetwork.com/adoption-myths-facts/domestic-us-statistics/">The Adoption Network</a> and <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/counseling/">LFCS</a></h6></div>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Jul 2023 09:23:11 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>The journey of adoption is filled with emotions, struggles, and beauty. From potential adoptive parents to birth parents to adoptees, everyone involved understands it is an incredibly sensitive process. For this reason, it can be difficult for anyone outside the adoption triad to truly understand the adoption experience. It can be difficult to know where to begin if someone is seeking to better understand the journey of adoption. LFCS is here to help those who would like to learn more about the details of the adoption process.</p>
<p>We asked our adoption team to answer some of the most common questions they are asked by prospective adoptive parents. We want to share their responses with you so that you can better understand what the journey of adoption can look like. Our adoption team believes it is important to have accurate information and aims to build awareness to all considering this extremely personal decision.</p>
<h3>How long does the adoption process normally take?</h3>
<p>On average, a private domestic adoption takes between 12-18 months for a waiting adoptive family to become matched. Many variables go into finding the perfect fit between expectant/birth parents and potential adoptive parents, and LFCS wants to make sure everyone feels the situation is just right for both parties. LFCS encourages adoptive families to be patient during this process because it can take time. It can be a long and difficult process, but the result will be a lifelong connection with a child who is deeply loved.</p>
<h3>How much does adoption typically cost?</h3>
<p>A typical private, domestic adoption costs between $20,000 &amp; $40,000. These costs include the home study, education/training for adoptive parents, birth parent support, and legal fees. We know this can be expensive for many families. LFCS can help families apply for grants to help cover the expenses. We want to minimize any barriers that keep adoptive couples from completing their family. </p>
<h3>What is an open adoption and why is it important?</h3>
<p>Openness in adoption refers to the type and amount of interaction between birth family, adoptive family, and the adoptee, as well as the access a child has to their full identity and heritage. Contact among all parties may involve shared updates and pictures or in-person visits. Openness allows the birth family, adoptive family, and the adoptee to maintain contact and build a relationship over time. Openness benefits everyone in the adoption triad, especially adoptees. Openness allows adoptees access to their adoption story and details about their birth heritage, even if contact with their birth family isn’t possible. Open adoption also helps birth parents feel confident that their child is safe and thriving. LFCS utilizes the Inclusive Family Support Model of openness to help families navigate this important relationship in adoption.</p>
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<h3>Can an adoptive couple choose a child&#8217;s race, gender, or other characteristics?</h3>
<p>During the home study process, adoptive parents are approved to adoption children based on what kind of child they feel equipped to parent. LFCS does not approve families based on a specific gender, but we do take into consideration a couple’s ability to support a child’s racial/ethnic heritage and health/mental health background. Additionally, the decision-making power is in the hands of each adoptive couple as they review the information in each matching situation.</p>
<h3>Can a birth parent change their mind after the adoption is finalized?</h3>
<p>We understand that many factors must be considered when faced with such an important decision. Pregnant women considering adoption often re-evaluate their plan as they move through the adoption process. The caring case workers at LFCS support clients throughout their pregnancy and delivery, whether they choose to parent or make an adoption plan. This support and guidance often gives expectant parents confidence in whatever plan they ultimately choose. In addition to support during pregnancy and placement, birth parents are also invited to receive ongoing support through post-adoption services offered through LFCS.</p>
<p>Once a child is placed for adoption, the legal process begins. Birth parents voluntarily consent to having their parental rights terminated so the adoption can move forward. This is the last point at which the birth parents can change their minds, as the consent process is legally-binding. This is why the LFCS adoption team continually educates and counsels birth families to make sure they understand every aspect of the permanent decision they are making. Once consents have been signed, adoptive families have two hearings during their adoption journey: one to transfer legal custody of the child to their family and the other to finalize their adoption. While many adoptive families fear that their adoption could be easily overturned, this fear is not supported by facts. It is extremely rare for adoptions to be overturned after an adoption has been finalized.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">For more information or to contact someone on our adoption team, please visit <a href="https://www.lfcsmo.org/adoption-services">lfcsmo.org/adoption-services</a></h3><p>The post <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/answering-adoption-questions/">Answering Common Adoptive Parent Questions</a> first appeared on <a href="https://lfcsmo.org">Lutheran Family and Children's Services of Missouri</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Since 1868, LFCS has provided comfort to struggling children and families during their greatest time of need. Since our founding, we have expanded our offices to provide life-changing services to communities in St. Louis, Southeast Missouri, Mid-Missouri, and Southwest Missouri. In 2023, we are excited to announce that LFCS is on the move again. We [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/kansas-city-here-we-come/">Kansas City Here We Come!</a> first appeared on <a href="https://lfcsmo.org">Lutheran Family and Children's Services of Missouri</a>.</p>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since 1868, LFCS has provided comfort to struggling children and families during their greatest time of need. Since our founding, we have expanded our offices to provide life-changing services to communities in St. Louis, Southeast Missouri, Mid-Missouri, and Southwest Missouri. In 2023, we are excited to announce that LFCS is on the move again. We are heading to Kansas City!</p>
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<p>Our Adoption, Parenting, and Pregnancy services will now be available in Jackson County. From parenting education to case management, home visitations to creating forever families, LFCS is thrilled to help Northwest Missouri build a better tomorrow. Overcoming challenges, creating sustainable change, and empowering communities. That’s what we do at LFCS and that’s what we are bringing to Kansas City!</p>
<p>&#8220;This is a major step for the agency in accomplishing our<br />
goal to be the recognized leader for parents and families who<br />
want solutions to help children thrive throughout the entire<br />
state.”<br />
<cite>Matthew BricklerPresident, LFCS Operating Board</cite></p>
<h2>Meet Brookelyn Morris,<br />
Kansas City&#8217;s Inaugural Staff Member</h2>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://lfcsmo.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Brookelyn-Morris-scaled.jpg" sizes="(max-width: 821px) 100vw, 821px" srcset="https://lfcsmo.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Brookelyn-Morris-scaled.jpg 821w, https://lfcsmo.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Brookelyn-Morris-scaled.jpg 240w, https://lfcsmo.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Brookelyn-Morris-scaled.jpg 768w, https://lfcsmo.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Brookelyn-Morris-scaled.jpg 1231w, https://lfcsmo.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Brookelyn-Morris-scaled.jpg 1642w, https://lfcsmo.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Brookelyn-Morris-scaled.jpg 113w, https://lfcsmo.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Brookelyn-Morris-scaled.jpg 254w" alt="Brookelyn Morris" width="821" height="1024" /><br />
“When I first started at LFCS, all of the staff<br />
made sure I felt welcome and supported.<br />
This is very vital as we are new to the<br />
KC area. We are so excited to bring an<br />
organization that is well needed to Kansas<br />
City!”<br />
<cite>&#8211; Brookelyn MorrisLFCS Social Worker</cite></p><p>The post <a href="https://lfcsmo.org/kansas-city-here-we-come/">Kansas City Here We Come!</a> first appeared on <a href="https://lfcsmo.org">Lutheran Family and Children's Services of Missouri</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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