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Even within this option, - [When the System Says "Wait," You Don't Have to at LFCS](https://lfcsmo.org/when-the-system-says-wait-you-dont-have-to-at-lfcs/) - If you have ever tried to get a child or teenager into a therapist, you know exactly how that first phone call goes. You finally work up the courage to seek help, you navigate the insurance runaround, and then you hit the phrase that seems to define youth mental health right now: We have a - [Find Happiness](https://lfcsmo.org/find-happiness/) - Small Ways to Find Happiness Finding happiness can feel elusive during the pandemic. Though it is not possible to be happy all of the time, there are some things that can help you reduce stress and improve happiness. Below are some practical tips that can minimize the stress and cultivate a sense of joy. Acknowledge - [Why Do You Serve? Creating Lasting Values for Missouri Families](https://lfcsmo.org/why-do-you-serve-creating-lasting-values-for-missouri-families/) - Our social workers are the living embodiment of our values. They lead with integrity. They treat every person as valued. And through steady, consistent presence, they create lasting value in the lives of children and families across Missouri. No one chooses this work because it is easy. They choose it because something in them will - [Not Sure When to Report Child Abuse? LFCS’ Child Abuse Prevention Checklist Can Help.](https://lfcsmo.org/not-sure-when-to-report-child-abuse-lfcs-child-abuse-prevention-checklist-can-help/) - Every April, Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS) observes Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention Month to encourage every Missourian to help keep children safe. Prevention isn't just about spotting the bad. It’s about strengthening families and providing the support they need so the "bad" never happens in the first place. Most people believe they would - [30 Years of Service: A Q&A with LFCS Chief Administrative Officer Rayna Ewell](https://lfcsmo.org/30-years-of-service-a-qa-with-lfcs-chief-administrative-officer-rayna-ewell/) - When Rayna Ewell joined Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS) in 1996, “HR” meant one coordinator, a stack of paper checks, and a lot of institutional faith. Nearly three decades later, LFCS is a statewide organization, and Rayna helped build the infrastructure that made that growth possible. Her leadership has always been rooted in our - [Q&A With Anna Kappel, LFCS Young Professionals Board President](https://lfcsmo.org/qa-with-anna-kappel-lfcs-young-professionals-board-president/) - Our Young Professinoals board brings fresh leadership to support Missouri families across the state. Established in 2025, the group is cultivating a new generation of advocates dedicated to serving the St. Louis area and other communities statewide. Now in 2026, the YPB is laying an even stronger foundation to advance our mission. We spoke with - [Candy Hearts Can’t Beat a Strong Relationship](https://lfcsmo.org/candy-hearts-cant-beat-a-strong-relationship/) - In 2026, we are looking at our mission through three specific lenses: our Values, the Value we provide to Missouri, and ensuring our people and families feel Valued. This month, we are exploring how our core Values of trust and respect transform "love" from a sentiment into a lifeline for the families we serve. February is filled with candy hearts - [Values, Value, and Feeling Valued: A Fresh Lens for LFCS in the New Year](https://lfcsmo.org/values-value-and-feeling-valued-a-fresh-lens-for-lfcs-in-the-new-year/) - The work we do at Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS) is rooted in purpose and sustained by the real progress of the families we serve. As we begin 2026, we know the challenges facing children and families are growing, especially as rising costs for essentials like food and housing leave many Missouri families just - [Building the Foundations for a More “Wonderful Life” in Missouri](https://lfcsmo.org/building-the-foundations-for-a-more-wonderful-life-in-missouri/) - It’s the most wonderful time of the year. It’s a season for hope, gratitude, and reflection on the powerful difference one life can make. Few stories capture that spirit better than Frank Capra’s 1946 classic film, It’s a Wonderful Life. The film tells the story of George Bailey, an everyman with big dreams who consistantly - [Understanding and Preventing Bullying in the Digital Age](https://lfcsmo.org/understanding-and-preventing-bullying-in-the-digital-age/) - October is National Bullying Prevention Month, a time for all of us to recommit to creating safe and supportive environments for our children. While we often picture bullying on the playground or in the school hallway, the reality is that for many young people today, bullying has moved online, becoming a constant and pervasive threat. - [National Adoption Month: Honoring the Courage and Lifelong Support for Birth Parents](https://lfcsmo.org/national-adoption-month-honoring-the-courage-and-lifelong-support-for-birth-parents/) - November is a time to celebrate the beauty of adoption, yet birth parents, often the most courageous part of the adoption story, are frequently overlooked. At Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS), we are dedicating National Adoption Month to raising awareness of the free, confidential counseling and lifelong support we provide to honor and care - [Lutheran Family and Children’s Services Backs New AAP Report Calling for Annual Youth Mental Health Screenings](https://lfcsmo.org/lutheran-family-and-childrens-services-backs-new-aap-report-calling-for-annual-youth-mental-health-screenings/) - A new report from the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) brings a critical issue into national focus: the mental health of young people. The AAP now recommends that all children and teens receive annual screenings for mental and behavioral health concerns—a step that Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS) fully supports. A full copy of - [July’s Crucial Call: Understanding and Supporting Minority Mental Health](https://lfcsmo.org/julys-crucial-call-understanding-and-supporting-minority-mental-health/) - As July begins, we turn our attention to National Minority Mental Health Month – a crucial time dedicated to understanding and addressing the unique mental health challenges faced by racial and ethnic minority communities across the United States. This month is more than just a date on the calendar; it's a vital opportunity to spark - [Celebrating Wellness Month: Why LFCS's Support for Missouri Families Never Stops](https://lfcsmo.org/celebrating-wellness-month-why-lfcss-support-for-missouri-families-never-stops/) - Celebrating Wellness Month: Why LFCS's Support for Missouri Families Never Stops August is here, and with it comes National Wellness Month. It serves as a valuable reminder that proper health means more than just physical fitness. It encompasses our emotional resilience, social connections, and the overall well-being of our families. While August shines the spotlight - [Parenting With Purpose: How LFCS Supports Families Like William and Elise's](https://lfcsmo.org/parenting-with-purpose-how-lfcs-supports-families-like-william-and-elises/) - A parent’s journey is best taken with guidance, support, and community. While many people have a village to help them raise their family, couples like William and Elise came to LFCS with no help, no support, and uncertainty about what is best for their family. For these parents of five energetic boys, reaching out to - [Facing Missouri's Mental Health Crisis - How LFCS Is Making A Difference](https://lfcsmo.org/facing-missouris-mental-health-crisis-how-lfcs-is-making-a-difference/) - May is Mental Health Awareness Month, a time to acknowledge the mental health challenges our communities face and to shine a light on the resources and organizations working to provide hope and healing. In Missouri, the need has never been greater. Missouri’s Mental Health Rankings: A Wake-Up Call Recent studies have made it clear—Missouri - [Why We Must Meet the Moment: LFCS’ Call to Action Amid Crisis](https://lfcsmo.org/why-we-must-meet-the-moment-lfcs-call-to-action-amid-crisis/) - Across Missouri—and the country—nonprofits are facing an urgent and unprecedented reality. Operational costs are rising due to inflation, while government contracts and fixed grants have lost their purchasing power. Organizations like Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Missouri are being asked to do more with less, at the exact moment when more people than ever - [Transracial Adoption Checklist: What Members Of The Adoption Triad Should Know](https://lfcsmo.org/transracial-adoption-checklist-what-members-of-the-adoption-triad-should-know/) - Adoption is a loving option for many families, and transracial adoption is a significant part of that landscape. While specific numbers fluctuate, it is estimated that nearly 30 percent of adoptions in the United States involve children of a different race or ethnicity than their adoptive parents. “Those numbers underscore the importance of resources and - [Honoring LFCS Social Workers During National Social Worker Appreciation Month](https://lfcsmo.org/honoring-lfcs-social-workers-during-national-social-worker-appreciation-month/) - Social workers are the foundation of strong communities, dedicating their time and expertise to helping individuals and families overcome obstacles and build brighter futures. Their efforts often go unnoticed, yet they are essential in providing support, advocacy, and life-changing services. At Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Missouri, we are proud to recognize and celebrate - [Building Brighter Futures for Missouri Children : Child Abuse & Neglect Prevention Month](https://lfcsmo.org/building-brighter-futures-for-missouri-children-child-abuse-neglect-prevention-month/) - Each year, thousands of children in Missouri experience abuse and neglect, facing challenges that can have lifelong consequences. At Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Missouri, we recognize Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention Month in April as an opportunity to raise awareness and advocate for the safety, healing, and well-being of children and families in - [Celebrating L’tanya Harris: Over 30 Years of Service at Hilltop Child and Family Development Center](https://lfcsmo.org/celebrating-ltanya-harris-over-30-years-of-service-at-hilltop-child-and-family-development-center/) - In preparation for this story, we asked the current staff of Hilltop Child and Family Development Center to share any insights, stories, or memories they have of L’tanya Harris. The most common sentiments shared were: Truly loves the kids and the staff of Hilltop A great role model Always willing to help Has everything you - [Addressing Mental Health Challenges Among Black Youth and Teens](https://lfcsmo.org/addressing-mental-health-challenges-among-black-youth-and-teens/) - Mental health struggles among youth and teens are a growing concern across the nation, but the impact within the African American community is especially alarming. Despite making strides in raising awareness about mental health, systemic inequities, cultural stigmas, and a history of mistrust in healthcare systems continue to pose barriers to access and care. According - [Welcome Tom Hohenstein as New Board Chair](https://lfcsmo.org/welcome-tom-hohenstein-as-new-board-chair/) - Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Missouri (LFCS), one of Missouri’s oldest and most respected social service agencies, is proud to announce the appointment of Tom Hohenstein as the new Chair of the Board of Directors. Hohenstein steps into this role following the conclusion of Matthew Brickler’s term in October 2024 A seasoned attorney and - [Counseling vs. Psychiatry: Knowing The Difference](https://lfcsmo.org/counseling-vs-psychiatry-knowing-the-difference/) - At Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Missouri, we are proud to provide low-cost, high-quality mental health counseling and psychiatry services to children and families across the state. While these services are essential for addressing a wide range of mental health challenges, many people may not fully understand the difference between therapy and psychiatry. Knowing - [Bringing The Healing Power of Music Therapy to Hilltop](https://lfcsmo.org/bringing-the-healing-power-of-music-therapy-to-hilltop/) - At Hilltop Child and Family Development Center, we believe that every child deserves the opportunity for a bright and successful future. This year, we are proud to partner with Midwest Music Therapy to offer music therapy services to the children of Hilltop. Research underscores how profoundly music therapy can impact children’s mental health, social skills, - [LFCS Expanding In Kansas City](https://lfcsmo.org/lfcs-expanding-in-kansas-city/) - We are proud to announce that LFCS will be adding Behavioral Health to our services in Kansas City, and our team is moving into a new office! We believe these moves solidifies our position as a statewide leader in delivering essential services to children and families in need. “Expanding our services in Kansas City is - [National Adoption Month: The Hanfs and Open Adoption](https://lfcsmo.org/national-adoption-month-the-hanfs-and-open-adoption/) - Michael and Sarah Hanf’s adoption journey is a powerful testament to the importance of openness in adoption. Their path, like many who pursue adoption, was filled with both hope and heartbreak. When the Hanfs first reached out to LFCS, they were navigating the emotional ups and downs of trying to build their family. “We continued - [LFCS Rallies Around Kids During This Election Season](https://lfcsmo.org/lfcs-rallies-around-kids-during-this-election-season/) - As election season approaches, we encourage you to focus on what truly matters: the well-being of children and families in our community. While we may be passionate about our politics, there’s one thing we can all agree on—every child deserves the chance to thrive. Lutheran Family and Children’s Services stands at the forefront of providing - [Finding Confidence & Success Through Therapy: Albert's Story](https://lfcsmo.org/finding-confidence-success-through-therapy-alberts-story/) - The following story was submitted by an LFCS behavioral health counselor. I met Albert when he was in 4th grade. His teacher referred him to our school counseling program for anger and social skill issues. At that time, he and his mother were living with his mother’s father, Albert’s grandfather. However, his mother was rarely - [Self-Care Awareness and Suicide Prevention: A Unified Approach to Addressing the National Suicide Epidemic](https://lfcsmo.org/self-care-awareness-and-suicide-prevention-a-unified-approach-to-addressing-the-national-suicide-epidemic/) - In recent years, the national suicide epidemic has reached alarming levels, affecting individuals and families across the country. LFCS has seen how impactful suicide has been to our clients, their family & friends, and our community. As we work to address this crisis, it’s becoming increasingly clear that self-care and suicide prevention are deeply intertwined. - [GRIEF IN ADOPTION](https://lfcsmo.org/grief-in-adoption/) - While adoption is often portrayed as a heartwarming journey filled with love and new beginnings, it is essential to acknowledge the complex emotions and grief that can accompany the process. For birth parents, the decision to place their child for adoption can be fraught with profound sadness and loss, even amidst the hope for a - [Empowering Families: Inside Lutheran Family and Children's Services of Missouri's Parenting Program](https://lfcsmo.org/empowering-families-inside-lutheran-family-and-childrens-services-of-missouris-parenting-program/) - At Lutheran Family and Children's Services of Missouri (LFCS), we believe in the transformative power of personalized support and unwavering dedication to our clients' well-being. Our parenting program is not just about imparting knowledge; it's about fostering meaningful connections, empowering families, and guiding them towards their goals with compassion and understanding. Through a combination of - [Congratulations To LFCS Parenting Client Breanna!](https://lfcsmo.org/looking-for-comfort-finding-a-chamption-breannas-story/) - Breanna first became involved with Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS) in 2017 when she learned she was pregnant with her second child. Her then- 1-year old daughter Cece was keeping her pretty busy, and she felt pretty overwhelmed and decided to reach out to LFCS for help. Kaitlynn was assigned as Breanna’s LFCS caseworker, - [Emily’s Essay](https://lfcsmo.org/emilys-essay/) - “Emily” is a brave girl who works with one of LFCS’ behavioral health therapists. She suffers from having extreme social anxiety and struggles in many common social settings. Recently, Emily had to write an essay for her class that would be presented in front of everyone. Fighting through nervousness and fear, Emily and her therapist - [Children’s Mental Health Checklist for a Happy, Healthy New Year](https://lfcsmo.org/childrens-mental-health-checklist-for-a-happy-healthy-new-year/) - As the New Year unfolds, ensuring children’s mental health should be a top priority for every parent. To assist families in addressing this important issue, Lutheran Family and Children's Service offers a concise Children’s Mental Health Checklist Open communication. Encourage honest conversations in a judgement-free zone where children can share their concerns. Model diverse feelings. - [A Path To Progress: LFCS' 2023 Accomplishments](https://lfcsmo.org/a-path-to-progress-lfcs-2023-accomplishments/) - This year was an exceptionally successful year for Lutheran Family and Children’s Services. From regional expansion to new offices, grants to graduations, LFCS has been blessed to increase our impact throughout Missouri. As we close this year out, we wanted to reflect on the memorable moments that took place; as well as look ahead to - [Adoption By The Numbers](https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-by-the-numbers/) - November is National Adoption Month, a time to celebrate the transformative power of adoption and raise awareness about the need for loving families for children. Courtesy of Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS), here are some of the most current adoption statistics, including some specific to Missouri. National 114,000 children are eligible for adoption. More - [Five Generations of Service to LFCS - Honoring the late Nellie Miller](https://lfcsmo.org/five-generations-of-service-to-lfcs-in-honor-of-the-late-nellie-miller/) - *A note from LFCS: We featured an article in the Fall edition of the Spirit newsletter, which unfortunately had a few errors. We are honored to share with you the incredible story of Nellie Miller and her family’s multi-generational impact, which changed the lives of countless children and families and has strengthened our community for - [From Uncertainty to Empowerment: Mia's Story](https://lfcsmo.org/from-uncertainty-to-empowerment-mias-story/) - Life can throw unexpected challenges, leaving us feeling lost and unsure of how to navigate the path ahead. For Jamele "Mia" Jones, her journey with Lutheran Family and Children's Services (LFCS) started at a pivotal time, reshaping her trajectory from uncertainty to empowerment. Now, at age 34, Mia stands as a living testament to the - [LFCS Historical Highlight: Regional Expansion](https://lfcsmo.org/lfcs-historical-highlight-regional-expansion/) - For the first 100 years of our existence, LFCS experienced a mix of struggles and successes. From multiple fires demolishing our buildings to adding multiple services to support families, it was an unforgettable journey. In fact, it wasn’t until 1968 (exactly 100 years since Rev. Buenger made that initial promise) that we took on the - [Answering Common Adoptive Parent Questions](https://lfcsmo.org/answering-adoption-questions/) - Previous Next The journey of adoption is filled with emotions, struggles, and beauty. From potential adoptive parents to birth parents to adoptees, everyone involved understands it is an incredibly sensitive process. For this reason, it can be difficult for anyone outside the adoption triad to truly understand the adoption experience. It can be difficult to - [An Ode To the Modern Dad](https://lfcsmo.org/an-ode-to-the-modern-dad/) - Too often, we underemphasize the role of “Dad” when it comes to raising a family. Traditionally, Mothers are presumed to take on more responsibilities and have higher expectations than Fathers do, with regard to child-rearing. The role of the Father Figure has evolved over time, and today’s Fathers are stepping up in ways that other - [Combatting the Mental Health Epidemic: Jasmine’s Story](https://lfcsmo.org/jasmines-story/) - By now, many of us have heard that anxiety and depression are on the rise. Study after study has shown that many Americans, especially teens and young adults, are experiencing mental health issues at an unprecedented level. The latest federal data shows that half of adults ages 18-24 reported anxiety and depression symptoms in 2023*. - [Child Abuse and Neglect: A Closer Look](https://lfcsmo.org/child-abuse-and-neglect-a-closer-look/) - April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month. At Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS), we believe that every child is precious and deserves a life of health and happiness. The services we provide are designed to decrease the risk of abuse and neglect, and provide kids throughout Missouri with safety, stability, and permanency. According to - [From overcoming challenges to overwhelming success; this is Sabrina's story](https://lfcsmo.org/sabrinas-story/) - After getting sober and finding the strength to leave an abusive relationship, Sabrina found herself without a place for her and her two young sons to call home. When she learned that she was pregnant with her third child, she knew she needed help to create a better life for her children. While looking at - [Kansas City Here We Come!](https://lfcsmo.org/kansas-city-here-we-come/) - Since 1868, LFCS has provided comfort to struggling children and families during their greatest time of need. Since our founding, we have expanded our offices to provide life-changing services to communities in St. Louis, Southeast Missouri, Mid-Missouri, and Southwest Missouri. In 2023, we are excited to announce that LFCS is on the move again. We - [Happy Birthday, Reverend Buenger!](https://lfcsmo.org/happy-birthday-reverend-buenger/) - Every story has a beginning, and the story of Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS) starts with one man: Rev. Johann Friedrich Buenger. Born on January 2, 1810, Rev. Buenger was an influential spiritual leader known for his compassion and ambition. To celebrate Rev. Buenger’s birthday, we would like to share some history about our - [COVID Relief Fund](https://lfcsmo.org/covid-relief-fund/) - The total impact from the current crisis is yet to be determined. As the circumstances continue to develop, we are anticipating an increasing need for our services and a funding gap which could prevent us from meeting those needs. The Lutheran Family and Children’s Services COVID Relief Fund will help us fill those gaps and - [Homeschooling](https://lfcsmo.org/homeschooling/) - Homeschooling is uncharted territory for many parents. If you are feeling overwhelmed by this unexpected challenge, you aren't alone and LFCS is here to help you along the way. Keeping a consistent routine is important and key to success. Follow this homeschool daily schedule to establish a “school away from school” routine. Also, be sure - [Amy: Managing the Impact of Childhood Trauma](https://lfcsmo.org/amy-trauma/) - Amy and her two younger brothers were raised by their single mother. Their dad left years ago, unable to manage the challenges of parenthood. The siblings could count on few adults in their life. Most struggled with addiction and Amy learned early in life that drugs were their priority. When Amy’s mom died of an - [8 Truths about Birth Moms](https://lfcsmo.org/8-truths-about-birth-moms/) - There are many misconceptions wen it comes to birth moms, also known as women who choose to make an adoption plan. Read below to learn eight important facts that anyone considering adoption should know. Birth moms love their babies/children. The sacrifice to make an adoption plan is tremendous. They will always be part of - [Making Dreams Come True](https://lfcsmo.org/making-dreams-come-true/) - Lera had big dreams. She was bright, enthusiastic, and guided by an ambition to make a difference. At 19, Lera moved to the United States from a small village in eastern Botswana, driven to earn degrees in education and business. She planned to return to Southern Africa in hopes of forming a school for girls. - [From Caseworker to Mother of 3](https://lfcsmo.org/caseworker-to-mother/) - “I don’t even like kids!” were the words I uttered for nearly 17 years. I never wanted biological children; it was not important to me. The idea of being pregnant made me panic. I hated hospitals, needles, pain, and germs. Through deductive reasoning, I determined pregnancy was just not a good fit for me. Plus, - [Thanks for helping "A Million Dreams" Come True for Kids in Need!](https://lfcsmo.org/thanks-for-helping-a-million-dreams-come-true-for-kids-in-need/) - From the bottom of our hearts, we want to thank to everyone who supported the 36th Annual LFCS Dinner and Auction! The event was held on Saturday, September 21, 2019 at the Four Seasons-St. Louis, and raised critical funds to support the life-changing services that LFCS provides to Missouri children and families. Your generosity allows - [Overcoming Trauma](https://lfcsmo.org/overcoming-trauma/) - Imagine being six-years-old and you have just started kindergarten. You are learning to read and making new friends at school. Then, abruptly, you are removed from the familiarity of all you know after claims of neglect have been substantiated by local authorities. A nice couple call themselves your foster parents, but you don't understand what that - [What is a Mother?](https://lfcsmo.org/what-is-a-mother/) - We traditionally celebrate the wonderful women in our lives on Mother’s Day. This May, LFCS honors the vital role moms have in a child’s life – a role that comes in many forms…biological moms, adoptive moms, foster moms, grandmothers, and other women who are raising the youngest generation. We felt no one could explain the - [One step to end abuse](https://lfcsmo.org/step-to-end-abuse/) - Henley lights up when she sees her mom, Aubrey, walk in the playroom. Love equally reflects from Aubrey’s eyes when she lifts her two-year old daughter into her arms for this afternoon’s fifth hug. From appearances, they seem happy in this moment. Sadly, Aubrey and Henley face many struggles. Just two months ago, they arrived - [Love Wins for Baby Mariah](https://lfcsmo.org/love-wins-for-baby-mariah/) - Children who are victims of domestic violence are 3 times more likely to repeat the cycle in adulthood - [Finding Support during Pregnancy](https://lfcsmo.org/finding-support-during-pregnancy/) - Support during pregnancy and the early years of parenting is something we all deserve. LFCS is here to assist women and their families achieve safe and stable home environments through our Family Services. It is one of many ways we are working to reduce the risk of child abuse and neglect in Missouri. Cecelia walked into the LFCS - [Finding Room in Your Heart](https://lfcsmo.org/room-in-your-heart/) - Your generosity shows the room in your heart for people living across Missouri who face challenges that may not be overcome without your help... You can make a difference for children like Henry and Andrew. At just six-year-old, the twins were removed from their parents’ custody last Christmas Eve after Missouri’s child protective agency staff found - [Promise of Childhood](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-of-childhood/) - Being a kid seems easy enough, but sometimes childhood is littered with challenges that no child should have to face. At LFCS, we want every Missouri child to experience the innocence of childhood feeling safe and loved. Joel’s history teacher was concerned. In recent months, he had missed days of school and when he was in class, - [LFCS Pregnancy, Parenting & Adoption Services](https://lfcsmo.org/lfcs-pregnancy-parenting/) - Did you know that LFCS provides pregnancy, parenting and adoption services? Many are familiar with the services we offer to families interested in adopting, but the ways in which we serve birth parents are lesser known. LFCS Pregnancy, Parenting and Adoption Services extends through every LFCS region and serves over 1,400 people each year. Read on to learn more... - [Promise of Motherhood](https://lfcsmo.org/the-promise-of-motherhood/) - Motherhood comes in many forms. At LFCS, we make every effort to serve women in their role as mothers - biological moms, adoptive moms, foster moms, grandmothers, and other women who are raising the youngest generation. Creating, sharing and improving motherhood is what we do so that children can have the best lives possible. Sarah, LFCS Foster - [Promise of Safety - Birth Parent Services](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-safety-birth-parent/) - Three years ago, as a senior in high school, Jessica was devastated to learn that she was pregnant. She had grown up in poverty and spent time in foster care. She never received the kind of support a loving family would have provided. Jessica was scared to become a teenage single mom, especially without healthy - [Child Abuse Prevention Month 2018](https://lfcsmo.org/child-abuse-prevention-month-2018/) - Did you know 5,141 children in the Missouri were involved in substantiated claims of abuse or neglect in 2017? April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month. At LFCS, we want to talk about this public health issue and what we can do to address it. Here are just a few of the staggering statistics: One in 4 children experience some - [A Promise to Care - Foster Care and Family Services](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-care-foster-care-family/) - Jared, Bella, Sam and Max are full of smiles as they chase each other around the playground. Sadly, it hasn’t always been like this. Who they are today is a stark contrast to just a few months ago when they were brought into the care of LFCS. A hotline call notified Children’s Division that 8-year old twins, - [A Promise to Care - Maternal Mental Health Services](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-care-maternal-mental-health/) - Caring for children is often instinctual. But what happens when a mother struggles with post-partum depression…when she can barely get out of bed, much less meet the needs of her child? Does that mother care for her child any less? Having access to mental health services at such a critical moment can be life saving - [A Promise of Love - Senior Care](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-love-senior-care/) - Is it possible to support an aging parent when you do not live in the same community? Is it possible for others to show the same level of love and care you have? Proper care can make all the difference. LFCS can be there when you can't. Sue lived alone in Southeast Missouri. Her husband passed - [A Promise of Love - Birth Parent Services](https://lfcsmo.org/love-birth-parent/) - Having a baby can challenge even when you feel like you have it all together. So imagine living on the streets with your young son and finding out you are pregnant as you struggle to overcome addiction. What choice would be best for you? Bree and Tony made the decision to ask LFCS for help. Bree and Tony had been - [A Promise of Love - Family Services](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-love-family/) - Parenting can be a challenge when you have the support of a caring partner or family close by, so imagine being a single mother of three, working full-time at minimum wage, and discovering a fourth child would be arriving in just a few short months. Where would you turn, if you were in need? Missy - [A Promise to Serve – Mental Health Services](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-mental-health-services/) - In 2018, Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS) is celebrating its 150th anniversary with the theme “Promise.” One-hundred fifty years ago, Rev. Johann Buenger made a promise to help one young boy. Today, more than 46,000 children and families in Missouri receive services each year as our promise continues. To show our continued commitment to - [A Promise to Serve - Community Prevention](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-community-prevention/) - In 2018, Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS) is celebrating its 150th anniversary with the theme “Promise.” One-hundred fifty years ago, Rev. Johann Buenger made a promise to help one young boy. Today, more than 46,000 children and families in Missouri receive services each year as our promise continues. To show our continued commitment to - [A Promise to Serve - Family Services](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-family-services/) - In 2018, Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS) is celebrating its 150th anniversary with the theme “Promise.” One-hundred fifty years ago, Rev. Johann Buenger made a promise to help one young boy. Today, more than 46,000 children and families in Missouri receive services each year as our promise continues. To show our continued commitment to - [A Promise to Serve - Fundraising](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-fundraising/) - In 2018, Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS) is celebrating its 150th anniversary with the theme “Promise.” One-hundred fifty years ago, Rev. Johann Buenger made a promise to help one young boy. Today, more than 46,000 children and families in Missouri receive services each year as our promise continues. To show our continued commitment to - [Keep Calm and Holiday On: Self-Care Ideas for the Holiday Season](https://lfcsmo.org/self-care-holidays/) - It’s that time of year; the long awaited holiday season is upon us and has been flashing its colors in stores since November 1. The holidays are meant to be a time of joy and celebration, but for many can be a time of stress and struggle. The added events with family and friends, end - [Surviving the Holidays](https://lfcsmo.org/surviving-the-holidays/) - The late comedian George Burns often said, “happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city.” Ha! Keeping a good sense of humor can be an asset as we approach the holidays, a time that brings many families together, with all the good and bad which that can entail. For many, family - [Adoption Tax Credit News](https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-tax-credit-news/) - Do you hope to benefit from the Adoption Tax Credit? National Council For Adoption is excited to announce that the House of Representatives has preserved the adoption tax credit in the Chairman’s markup of the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act and the Senate has preserved the ATC in their newly-released tax reform proposal. Share this news on Facebook | Share this news - [Self-Networking: One Adoptive Family's Story on How They Worked to Make Their Adoption Happen](https://lfcsmo.org/self-networking/) - "God's plans will always be greater and more beautiful than all your disappointments." This is only one of the thousands of inspirational quotes pinned to my Pinterest board leading up to and during the adoption process. It may have seemed silly and obsessive from an outsider, but for me, it was another source of strength. - [Answering God's Call to Adopt](https://lfcsmo.org/answering-gods-call-adopt/) - Adoption is a big deal. It’s life altering. But it’s also completely normal if you are called to do it. We can’t imagine our lives if we had never heeded the call. We had known for a while that we would like to adopt, but hadn’t pursued it until we learned about a little girl - [Conflict vs. Bullying](https://lfcsmo.org/conflict-vs-bullying/) - Knowing the difference between bullying and conflict can help you detect whether or not your child is being bullied. Conflict is a part of everyday life. Learning to handle conflict is an important social skill for children to have. Bullying is not a normal part of everyday life and should be addressed by adults. Bullying occurs - [Amazing Grace](https://lfcsmo.org/amazing-grace/) - Amazing Grace Ten tiny fingers and ten tiny toes. Perfect little ears, and the cutest button nose. I hold you while you're sleeping, swaying side to side. Wondering what you're dreaming, behind those big blue eyes. What are you remembering? Who is it that you see? Is it something beautiful? A happy memory? How did - [Be Yourself](https://lfcsmo.org/be-yourself/) - Have you seen the greeting card that quotes Oscar Wilde declaring: Be yourself: everyone else is taken? How is it that something that sounds so obvious can actually be difficult and confusing? First of all, "being yourself" requires self-awareness. One must have answers to questions like, "What do I feel?" and "What do I believe?" - [Be an Advocate for Your Child in School](https://lfcsmo.org/advocate-child-school/) - Navigating school can be challenging at times for children, but it can also be a difficult time for parents. Have you ever had frustrating conversations with teachers or administration and felt like you were not being heard? It becomes even more difficult when your child may have a learning disorder, ADHD, developmental disability or a - [Calm in the Classroom](https://lfcsmo.org/calm-in-the-classroom/) - Having a calm classroom is important for students and teachers and is an added benefit in the learning process. Students are often referred to School Counselors because they are having a hard time managing their emotions day-to-day in class. These kids find themselves visiting the principal weekly (if not daily) because they had do not have the - [Back to School](https://lfcsmo.org/back-to-school/) - As summer ends and a new school year approaches, it is important that parents make positive changes within the family routine to ensure that their children start school on a positive note. Here are some simple skills that may help: Set a new routine before the school year starts - Summer is a - [Foster Care Crisis](https://lfcsmo.org/foster-care-crisis/) - What if I told you that we could put an end to the foster care crisis today? Think about that. What if in a matter of months we could get EVERY foster child in the United States with a family? On top of that, what if we could appropriately support all of the country’s foster - [Waiting](https://lfcsmo.org/waiting/) - Waiting… something not too many people would say they are good at. Adoption is about waiting. Waiting for your paperwork to be processed, waiting for your financial support to come, waiting to be matched, waiting for your baby to be born, waiting for court, etc. Now having been through the process, I can finally say - [Social Media's Impact on Teens](https://lfcsmo.org/social-media-impact-teens/) - Social media has very much changed the way that people interact and its use today is higher than ever. We have access to it on our personal computers, smart phones, tablets and any other handheld device. We are online at work, at home and at school. Because we are constantly connected, there is an overwhelming - [Physical Health / Mental Health](https://lfcsmo.org/physical-health-mental-health/) - Did you know that by improving your general physical health by exercising you are less at risk of developing mental illness? According to the National Alliance on Mental Illness, regular exercise can decrease symptoms of anxiety and depression, as well as improve energy, concentration and sleep. Make sure your kids learn healthy habits early in life. - [Childhood Depression](https://lfcsmo.org/childhood-depression/) - Depression is the most common mental health problem in the United States, affecting more than 17 million people each year. You may be aware of how depression affects adults and may even know someone that has suffered from depression, but did you know that as many as 1 in 33 children may have depression? Depression is - [Mental Health Awareness in May](https://lfcsmo.org/mental-health-awareness-may/) - Spread awareness! Remember these key messages about mental health: Mental health is essential to everyone’s overall health and well-being, and mental illnesses are common and treatable. People experience symptoms of mental illnesses differently—and some engage in potentially dangerous or risky behaviors to avoid or cover up symptoms of a potential mental health problem. Sometimes people—especially - [Mental Illness in Children](https://lfcsmo.org/mental-illness-children/) - By appearances, she seemed so innocent with bright green eyes and curly brown hair. An only child of a well-educated, successful couple, Lexi had access to opportunities that others dream of. She attended a private school, lived in a gated community, and was surround by affluence. Mental illness, however, didn’t care about any of it - [Small Blessings](https://lfcsmo.org/small-blessings/) - Sometimes, we are surprised by small blessings... Today was a tough one. One of those days when I question why we choose to foster kids. We have this sweet spot in life right now with our girls - they are young enough to always want to be with us yet big enough to be self - [May is National Foster Care Month](https://lfcsmo.org/may-national-foster-care-month/) - Empowering Caregivers, Strengthening Families Help us celebrate National Foster Care Month during the month of May! We will highlight the services LFCS provides, the need across the state as well as some of our Foster Care Families that make it all possible. Follow us on Facebook so you won't miss a thing! - [Social Work Month](https://lfcsmo.org/social-work-month-2017/) - Social workers stand up for millions of people every day. These include people who are experiencing devastating illnesses and mental health crises, our veterans, children, families and communities. Yet many people still misunderstand who social workers are and the invaluable contributions they bring to society. This year, Social Work Month is being commemorated with a - [Honoring National Child Abuse Prevention Month](https://lfcsmo.org/honoring-child-abuse-prevention/) - A little over 30 years ago, advocates from Missouri and all over the country convinced Congress that child abuse and neglect prevention deserved attention on a federal level and in 1984, under the leadership of President Reagan, April was designated as National Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention Month. National Child Abuse Prevention Month is a - [Welcome our New President & CEO](https://lfcsmo.org/welcome-new-president-ceo/) - On behalf of the Agency Board, Foundation Board and Search Committee, we are pleased to announce that Charles “Mike” Duggar has been named President and CEO of Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Missouri. With twenty-four years of progressive social service experience, Mike will bring a fresh perspective and uplifting energy to our organization. Through - [Promoting Positive Norms: Living Drug-Free](https://lfcsmo.org/promoting-positive-norms-drug-free/) - Society and the media often promote negative social norms in regards to substance abuse. As a result, children and teens can be misinformed on the subject. They often overestimate the number of people who use drugs. Young people may also relate drug use to being acceptable or even cool. These perceptions can undermine a child’s - [St. Nicholas Day](https://lfcsmo.org/st-nicholas-day/) - St. Nicholas Day 2016 Celebrated by Christians around the world, December 6 honors the real-life Bishop of Myra. Nicholas, a man who is said to have always noticed others’ needs, was known to give gifts in secret to poor and needy children and families – and with extra special generosity at Christmastime. Stories about the - [Foster kids need you!](https://lfcsmo.org/foster-kids-need-you/) - EVERY DAY 1,200 KIDS ENTER FOSTER CARE IN THE UNITED STATES In 2015, across Missouri... 68,000+ reports of child abuse or neglect were made to state officials. 6,500+ children lived in the custody of the Children's Division. 2,274 foster care placements were made. But because of generous donors like you... LFCS is able to rescue - [Giving Back this Christmas](https://lfcsmo.org/giving-back-christmas/) - "It's not how much we give but how much love we put into giving." Mother Teresa "No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another." Charles Dickens "We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give." Winston S. Churchill ‘Tis the season for all the - [Cash](https://lfcsmo.org/cash/) - Let me start by saying that my husband and I didn't make our decision to adopt lightly. After years of struggling with unknown infertility and four failed invitro procedures, we thought we had to close that chapter of our lives and move on. After grieving the idea of not having a biological child, we started - [Adopting Addie](https://lfcsmo.org/adopting-addie/) - Our adoption story begins like most, with a desire to grow our family. Coupled with that however, we had a strong desire to be able to display the gospel- the truth that while we were far off God brought us into His family- by specifically adopting internationally and bringing a far off orphan into a - [Worth the Wait](https://lfcsmo.org/worth-the-wait/) - Our "on-demand" society has conditioned us to think that everything we want in life should happen quickly. We have access to food, entertainment and communication with others almost as soon as we think of it. When it comes to adoption, all-too-often, this looks like a 30 minute, or heaven forbid, hour long episode of our - [Surviving Back to School](https://lfcsmo.org/surviving-back-school/) - Getting back into the swing of school schedules can be an adjustment. Here are a few tips on how to make the best of the transition: Prepare the night before or over the weekend. Get adequate sleep. (8 to 10 hours) Turn off electronic devices early. Prepare healthy meals. Keep the kids involved throughout the - [10 Facts about Embryo Adoption](https://lfcsmo.org/embryo-adoption-facts/) - To truly understand embryo adoption, it's important to know the facts. So here they are, in no particular order... Top Ten Embryo Adoption Facts Embryo adoption allows the adopting (also called “receiving”) family to experience pregnancy and birth. We call it adoption, because the receiving family will be raising a child that is not biologically - [Will's Adoption](https://lfcsmo.org/wills-adoption/) - Our adoption journey began in 2005, after we attended an LFCS adoption workshop. In time, we made a plan to adopt a baby from China and LFCS provided our home study. But as wait times grew to unprecedented lengths to adopt from China, we were inspired by friends who adopted domestically through LFCS. Sometime after - [Suicide Prevention Week](https://lfcsmo.org/suicide-prevention-week/) - National Suicide Prevention Week - September 5 - 11, 2016 According to Communities Healing Adolescent Depression and Suicide (CHADS) Coalition, more children die from suicide in the 15-19 age group than from the top 6 medical causes of death combined. Furthermore, for every completed suicide in the 15-24 age group, about 900 attempts are made. - [Childhood Obesity](https://lfcsmo.org/childhood-obesity/) - By Glenna Weis, PhD & Peter Jaberg, PhD Childhood obesity is a national problem as illustrated by 9 million children who were overweight as of 2010. Although there are many associated physical ailments, emotional aspects are often overlooked. Further understanding is a necessity for treating children. As of 2006, the following data had been collected - [Join Our Advocacy Network](https://lfcsmo.org/join-our-advocacy-network/) - “Why don’t you pick on someone your own size?” In Hollywood playgrounds, it’s easy to spot the villain, because they’ll be bullying someone who can’t defend themselves. The hero immediately steps in to deliver justice, saying their good guy catchphrase. The hero’s actions ensure that the victim is given the right to eat their lunch, - [Car Seat Safety Saves Lives](https://lfcsmo.org/car-seat-safety-saves-lives/) - By 2016, most of us are now aware that children should be fitted in an age-appropriate car seat. But did you know that the CDC still estimates that more than 618,000 children ages 0-12 ride in a vehicle without a car seat or seatbelt each year? If your child does use a car seat or - [Congratulations Alan](https://lfcsmo.org/congratulations-alan/) - Have you heard the news? Rev. Alan Erdman has retired as President & CEO of Lutheran Family and Children’s Services, effective July 1, 2016. As we close this amazing chapter in the history of LFCS, we would like to invite you to make a special gift in honor of Alan’s notable 24-year career at LFCS. - [Missouri Adoptee Rights Act](https://lfcsmo.org/missouri-adoptee-rights-act/) - Advocacy Happenings: The Missouri Adoptee Rights Act In May, the Missouri legislature passed HB1599, the Missouri Adoptee Rights Act, granting Missourians who were adopted between 1941 and 1986 access to their original birth certificates. While this law is a wonderful opportunity for adoptees to learn more about their biological history, the rights of their birth - [Celebrating Foster Parents](https://lfcsmo.org/celebrate-foster-parents/) - To celebrate foster parents this final week of National Foster Care Month, we dedicate this poem to you - the families who graciously open their homes and hearts to children during a time of urgent need. Thank you for giving your love and kindness whenever and wherever it is needed! To learn more about - [Hands on Banking](https://lfcsmo.org/hands-on-banking/) - LFCS Community Services was recently awarded a grant known as Hands on Banking. The funding, provided by Wells Fargo and United Way of Greater St. Louis, supports a five-week financial education program for school-aged children. Aligned with national and state educational standards for economics, financial literacy, mathematics, and English language arts, the lessons guide participants - [Give STL Day Continues](https://lfcsmo.org/give-stl-day-continues/) - Generosity broke the internet yesterday. Let's try to do it again! Give STL Day has been extended due to technical issues that caused the St. Louis Community Foundation donation pages to malfunction during yesterday's giving cycle. Because of the issues, gifts will be accepted until 12:30 pm today that can make great things happen across St. Louis! - [Important Message from Anne Frank](https://lfcsmo.org/important-message-from-anne-frank/) - [Meet Tony: An LFCS School Counseling Client](https://lfcsmo.org/meet-tony-school-counseling/) - Tony was referred to school counseling to address his problematic behavior issues in the classroom. He found himself in the office frequently, and was facing grade retention if he continued to be suspended for his behavior. Like many children, Tony had feelings that he was unable to articulate, so he acted them out instead. During - [Meet Kayla: An LFCS Crisis Pregnancy Client](https://lfcsmo.org/meet-kayla-crisis-pregnancy/) - Kayla was referred to LFCS by her mental health counselor. She was 18 and pregnant, living with her mom who also struggles with mental illness. Her boyfriend Matt was trying to finish his senior year of high school. While Kayla and Matt were excited about the pregnancy, they also knew they weren't really ready for - [Foster Care Appreciation Month](https://lfcsmo.org/foster-care-appreciation-month/) - May is Foster Care Appreciation Month! We offer heartfelt appreciation to our LFCS foster parents and all foster parents who open their hearts and homes to children who need their love, security, encouragement, healing and guidance. - [Heir Not-So-Apparent](https://lfcsmo.org/heir-not-so-apparent/) - He’s not your own, but he is counting on you. There’s a simple way you can continue to invest in his future, and in the lives of other vulnerable children, beyond your own lifetime. Name LFCS as a beneficiary of a retirement account, life insurance policy or consider a donation of stocks, IRAs, or other - [Meet Jake](https://lfcsmo.org/meet-jake/) - “Thank you so much, LFCS, for helping us with the most precious gift in the world!” Little Jake found a forever loving home, because of friends like you! Jake’s birth parents knew they were not in a position to raise a child and had turned to LFCS to find a loving home and family. Jake was - [Meet Brandon and Lindsey](https://lfcsmo.org/meet-brandon-and-lindsey/) - Brandon and Lindsey discovered they were unable to have biological children and felt called to become adoptive parents. On Friday, November 13, 2015, their dream of becoming parents was realized when Addie's adoption was finalized. Learn more about their story below. - [Meet Tammy](https://lfcsmo.org/meet-tammy/) - “Thank God for such a wonderful person and a great establishment. I love this place and I hope that more families can be helped and experience the joy and help I have experienced.” Tammy and her children enjoy their new home, because of friends like you! Tammy is a hardworking single mom. She heard about - [Meet David](https://lfcsmo.org/meet-david/) - David was born in St. Louis in April of 1968. In May of that same year, his adoption of finalized and he became the son of Joe and Loretta Pennington. "I was raised by the most incredible parents in a home filled with love," said David. He grew up surrounded by the lush green landscape of - [Our Story of Embryo Adoption](https://lfcsmo.org/embryo-adoption/) - My husband and I were married in May 2006 and became pregnant that September with our first child. Our beautiful, daughter Alyssa was born in May 2007 at 34 weeks and diagnosed with a rare genetic condition called Emanuel Syndrome (partial Trisomy 22) at two weeks old. Alyssa, had numerous surgeries during her 5 months of life - [Mermaids Aren't Brown](https://lfcsmo.org/mermaids-arent-brown/) - I like to lay down at night with my 4 year-old daughter for a few minutes because she often will share with me a little glimpse into her world. One night not long ago, she told me that one of her friends at school that day had told her that she couldn't pretend to be - [Supporting Family & Children of Law Enforcement Officers](https://lfcsmo.org/supporting-family-children-of-law-enforcement-officers/) - The following article, by our own Sarah Buehner, MSW, LCSW, appears in the NASW (National Association of Social Workers) Summer 2015 Newsletter. Sarah earned her MSW from the Brown School of Social Work at Washington University and holds her LCSW in the state of Missouri. Here at LFCS, Sarah provides school-based counseling services to teens in St. Louis. She - [Portraits of Grace: Older Children Needing Forever Homes](https://lfcsmo.org/portraits-of-grace-older-children-needing-forever-homes/) - Portraits of Grace is a movable tower that showcases the older children who are available for adoption. These kids really need a forever home. If you are in the neighborhood, please come to our lobby on the 4th floor to check them out!! If your church would like to have this tower in their lobby - [Cammie's Story: Homeless, Unemployed, Parenting and Pregnant](https://lfcsmo.org/cammies-story-homeless-unemployed-parenting-and-pregnant/) - Let’s be honest. Being pregnant it not always the happiest time of your life. It can be scary, especially when the pregnancy is unplanned or you are experiencing a crisis like not having a home, a job, or support from family or friends. You know you need help, but where can you turn for that - [The Merits of Meditation](https://lfcsmo.org/the-merits-of-meditation/) - The benefits of meditation range from a great ability to sleep peacefully to enhanced memory retention. The physical and mental benefits may be evident to anyone who regularly relies on deep breathing techniques (focused methods of breathing in which people inhale and exhale in a conscious, deliberate, and slow manner). Those who practice it may - [Parenting and Keeping Your Relationship Alive](https://lfcsmo.org/parenting-and-keeping-your-relationship-alive/) - by LFCS Therapist, Elizabeth Flynn, MSW Raising children in this day and age is not for the faint of heart. You love them, but they can drive you to the point of crazy at any given time. Sometimes we go through the daily grind of work and family obligations, celebrations and crisis not knowing what - [Adoption: Feels like a lot of hurry up and wait](https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-feels-like-a-lot-of-hurry-up-and-wait/) - by Meg Roetto, MSW, LMSW, LFCS Adoption Case Worker - Southwest Office Sometimes the adoption process can feel like a hurry up and wait process. During the home study process your time is filled with paperwork, interviews, paperwork, home visits, training and more paperwork. There are so many things to keep your time busy that - [First Time Parents Part 2: Dads](https://lfcsmo.org/first-time-parents-part-2-dads/) - by LFCS Therapist, Tanya Lemmon, MSW, LCSW Last week I posted a blog on First Time Parents: Moms. Here's another one with tips for first time dads! Thankfully, children do not come full grown! They grow one step at a time. “You have time to learn and time to make mistakes.” (9 Tips for New - [How to Keep the Peace while Vacationing with Family](https://lfcsmo.org/how-to-keep-the-peace-while-vacationing-with-family/) - No vacation is worry-free. The weather can be bad, someone can get stung by a bee, luggage can be lost, etc., etc. But, a few handy tips can mean a much more enjoyable family vacation for everyone. Here are a few suggestions from an article in July’s edition of Real Simple magazine. Someone may have to - [How do you eat an elephant?](https://lfcsmo.org/how-do-you-eat-an-elephant/) - One bite at a time! 5 Reasons You'll Want to Set Up Monthly Giving 1. It's easier. People often find they can make a bigger impact by consistently donating in bite sizes that fit their monthly budget. And as a bonus, you can set it up once and won't have to think about it again! - [First Time Parents Part 1: Moms](https://lfcsmo.org/first-time-parents-part-1-moms/) - Blog by LFCS Therapist, Tanya Lemmon, MSW, LCSW My husband and I will become first time parents this December! We are so excited but we also have admitted to each other the reality of our concerns about being good enough parents for our little one. We have talked to friends who are already parents and - [Head Start Celebrates its 50th Birthday - LFCS Has Head Start Programming!](https://lfcsmo.org/head-start-celebrates-its-50th-birthday-lfcs-has-head-start-programming/) - LFCS Hilltop Child Development Center 2015 Graduates! This year is an important milestone - 50th Birthday - for the Head Start program. PBS Newshour highlighted the Head Start anniversary with its video, "What's the legacy of Head Start 50 years on?" Thanks to advocates more than 50 years ago, Head Start was created and more - [To Love the Babies ~ Fostering from a Teen's Perspective](https://lfcsmo.org/to-love-the-babies-fostering-from-a-teens-perspective/) - ~ by Sydney Strong My mom is the definition of a free spirit. She's very spontaneous, funny, loving, and although I love her personality most of the time, some of her impromptu decisions have had dramatic effects on my family and my routine-oriented personality. One crisp, autumn day when I was in 7th grade, my mom - [What is Leadership?](https://lfcsmo.org/what-is-leadership/) - Over 3,000 kids (and growing) participate in LFCS' Youth Development Programs -- programs like CHOICES, CALL and STEP-Up that provide children and teens in our community with training, skills and opportunities to be their best. What do the youth get out of participating in youth leadership and engagement programs? Five areas of competency that distinguish leaders and shape youth - [Foster Care Provides Safety Net for 10,000 Missouri Children Yearly](https://lfcsmo.org/foster-care-provides-safety-net-for-10000-missouri-children-yearly/) - Lutheran Family and Children’s Services addresses needs statewide for child & parent May is National Foster Care Awareness Month We often hear the term “most vulnerable” children. Who could be more worthy of this designation than the children within the Foster Care System? Lutheran Family and Children’s Services (LFCS) reminds the community during May, which - [Give STL Day May 5!](https://lfcsmo.org/give-stl-day-may-5/) - Mark your calendars for MAY 5! LFCS is once again participating in Give STL Day ~ a 24-hour online giving event with local impact! Give STL Day is a big, bold opportunity for us and for our community. A partnership between the Greater Saint Louis Community Foundation and local nonprofits from across the area, - [LFCS Advocacy Week ~ April 20 - 27](https://lfcsmo.org/lfcs-advocacy-week-april-20-24/) - What does advocacy mean to you? Advocacy: the opportunity to influence those you’ve elected into government office for the benefit of you and your community. You took the time to vote for these officials, so make sure they know what is important to you! As part of our Mission, Lutheran Family & Children’s Services is - [Stressed? Don't Forget to Take Care of YOU](https://lfcsmo.org/stressed-dont-forget-to-take-care-of-you/) - Self-Care in times of high stress is one of the most important (not selfish) things you can do for yourself as well as for those around you. If you haven’t taken care of your inner self to feel grounded and calm, you won’t be of much value to your family, friends, co-workers, or clients. Below - [Do video games lead to violence?](https://lfcsmo.org/do-video-games-lead-to-violence/) - This is an often debated question that deserves some consideration. After the Sandy Hook shootings in December 2012, President Obama urged that Congress find out about the connection between video games and gun violence, due to the gunman regularly playing shooting video games. There have been numerous different studies and articles published on this topic - [Were you Adopted or in Foster Care and Need Counseling?](https://lfcsmo.org/were-you-adopted-or-in-foster-care-and-need-counseling/) - If you were adopted or in foster care and are struggling with issues unique to these life experiences, LFCS can help! If you live in St. Louis County, this counseling is FREE. We can help you explore issues such as: Identity Loss Attachment Culture Past Trauma Past abuse or neglect Fitting in Self-esteem Relationships Family Contact - [Top 5 reasons NOT to miss Southeast's 2nd Annual LFCS Kentucky Derby Party!](https://lfcsmo.org/top-5-reasons-not-to-miss-southeasts-2nd-annual-lfcs-kentucky-derby-party/) - Here are the top 5 reasons NOT to miss the great Kentucky Derby Party hosted by the LFCS Southeast Office: 5. Mint Juleps- LFCS Style! You won’t want to miss our signature LFCS 'Run For The Roses' Mint Julep sponsored by MediCenter Pharmacy of Jackson and Cape Girardeau. Complete with Four Roses Kentucky Straight Bourbon Whiskey - [Happy Easter](https://lfcsmo.org/2386-2/) - Easter is HERE! We look outside to see the beauty of God’s work in every beautiful flower and tree coming to life again. It is also a time to reflect on the many children in foster care throughout the St Louis area. Many need a foster family or forever family to share God’s love and - [Assertive Communication](https://lfcsmo.org/assertive-communication/) - Much counseling work centers on healthy interpersonal communication, because healthy communication is an integral part of attuning and attaching to another person. This is true for all relationships, including parent/child, couples, work colleagues, and friendships. One way to envision communication patterns is to think in terms of assertiveness, non-assertiveness, and aggression. The term aggression can - [Consider Reading to Kids - OASIS Volunteers needed](https://lfcsmo.org/consider-reading-kids-oasis-volunteers-needed/) - Share your love of reading by volunteering to be an OASIS tutor in one of our Lutheran grade schools. By attending a training class you will learn how to use your gifts and talents to assist a student who is struggling with basic language skills. Future training classes will be offered in January, 2015. Please - [We Got a Facelift and We are Blogging!](https://lfcsmo.org/got-facelift-blogging/) - We are excited to launch our newly designed website! And we are excited to have a blog as part of our new site. If you have a few minutes, browse around. We are here to help with life's challenges. When you need somewhere to turn, you can find hope at LFCS! - [Providing Services in Southeast Missouri](https://lfcsmo.org/providing-services-southeast-missouri-2/) - In 2013 the Southeast office of Lutheran Family and Children’s Services celebrated 40 years of service in Southeast Missouri. We’re very proud of the impact we’ve had on the Southeast Missouri community in that time and of the services we continue to provide today. We offer help to the most vulnerable in our community, from - [Providing Services in Southwest Missouri](https://lfcsmo.org/providing-services-southeast-missouri/) - Our Southwest Missouri office is located in Springfield, Missouri but we cover 28 counties across Missouri -- from Joplin to Rolla and Clinton to south of Branson. We are here to serve you! Our region has three main programs: Pregnancy Counseling: This program is geared for families who are pregnant and in crisis. We offer - [Portraits of Grace](https://lfcsmo.org/portraits-grace/) - The Portraits of Grace are pictures of beautiful children that are in the state’s care who are looking for a forever family. It would be wonderful if your church, library, gym, or any place you frequent would be willing to display the Picture Tower for a month. We have staff that will assemble and take - [Resources for National Suicide Prevention Month](https://lfcsmo.org/giving-resources-for-national-suicide-prevention-month/) - https://youtu.be/0QS_b31bRPM In 2022, 49,500 people took their own lives in the U.S., the highest number ever*. Suicide is currently the 2nd leading cause of death for those ages 10-34 in Missouri. 1,177 Missourians died by suicide in 2021 (most current state data)**, while thousands more were treated for self-inflicted injuries. It is difficult to know - [Thank you to all our social workers](https://lfcsmo.org/thank-you-to-all-our-social-workers/) - Every March, social workers across the country are recognized and thanked for their resourcefulness, creativity, and passion for helping those in need. LFCS currently employs over 150 social workers & case managers who provide pregnancy support, parenting education, adoption services, foster care case management, child development services, and community prevention, across the state of Missouri. - [Celebrating LFCS Employee Milestones in 2022](https://lfcsmo.org/celebrating-lfcs-employee-milestones-in-2022/) - Congratulations to the following amazing LFCS staff members on your milestone anniversary in 2022! We are so very grateful for your loyalty and your incredible dedication to helping children and families.30-Year Anniversary:Bev Schaefer20-Year Anniversary:Erica Marmon10-Year Anniversary:Lara DuyMelani Engel5-Year Anniversary:Rasheedah BagleyMike DuggarKatelyn HentrichDawn GrosseCarmen HodsonSusan McDowellMichelle MeierJoy NicholsMarybeth GrasJenny Thomas - [Advocate for Yourself](https://lfcsmo.org/advocate-for-yourself/) - Advocating for personal needs is a healthy way to feel empowered and confident. The Merriam-Webster gives insight of what it means to advocate: to plead the cause of another; to defend or maintains a cause or proposal; to support or promote the interests of a cause or group. Rather than being a bystander, we can - [Helping Kim find Stability](https://lfcsmo.org/helping-kim-find-stability/) - A few years ago, I was working in an entry-level position and caring for my three children. When I learned I was pregnant, I was overwhelmed, as I wasn’t sure having another baby was something I could do physically or financially. However, I knew in my heart that parenting my child was the best option - [Intentional Kindness](https://lfcsmo.org/intentional-kindness/) - Act with Intentional Kindness The phrase random acts of kindness has become a part of our vocabulary. It brings to mind people being kind to strangers almost as if they were caught up in a moment of generosity. Then there are others who seem to be more purposeful in their kindness making it part of - [Inclusive Adoption](https://lfcsmo.org/inclusive-adoption/) - Inclusive Adoption: A New Paradigm for the Adoption Process By: Melani Engel, LFCS Director of Adoption Services At Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Missouri (LFCS) we know firsthand that adoption is a life-changing decision for birth parents, adoptive parents, and the adopted child. Serving more than 500 people with these specialized services each year - [Suicide Prevention](https://lfcsmo.org/suicide-prevention/) - Risk Factors and Warning Signs to Prevent Suicide Do you know someone who has been affected by suicide? Not everyone who considers suicide has attempted to end one’s life, and most people keep these thoughts to themselves. Many people worry that talking about suicide will give someone the idea to end one’s life, but this - [Emotional Intelligence](https://lfcsmo.org/emotional-intelligence/) - Emotional Intelligence can be equated to your “emotional IQ" and is actually a stage of human development. Many have experienced some extent of trauma during our emotional development. When this happens, our ability to regulate our own emotions and also empathize with the perspectives of others can become stunted. This can result in: Rigid, black-and-white - [Q&A - Foster Care/Child Abuse Prevention](https://lfcsmo.org/qa-foster-care-child-abuse/) - Recently, we sat down with LFCS Foster Care Senior Program Manager Lisa Lowrance to discuss child abuse and neglect, foster care, and the needs of children and families throughout Missouri. As a tenured worker in foster care and an adoptive mother herself, she offers a unique perspective on the issues. Click below to listen to the - [Help End Abuse](https://lfcsmo.org/help-end-abuse/) - April is Child Abuse Prevention Month. Together we can spread awareness while promoting safety, stability, and well-being for all children across Missouri. In 2020, more than 56,000 cases of child abuse and neglect were reported across the state. These reports involved more than 78,000 children, according to the Missouri Department of Social Services Children’s Division - [Breaking Unhealthy Habits](https://lfcsmo.org/breaking-unhealthy-habits/) - [Connection and Conflict](https://lfcsmo.org/connection-and-conflict/) - I did not become a social worker because I enjoyed conflict. My motivation, in fact, was to lend a hand in alleviating it. Conflict hurts. But the more I learn, the more I understand that conflict is not something that has to be feared. If approached from the right frame of mind, conflict and disagreement - [Holidays during a Pandemic](https://lfcsmo.org/holidays-during-a-pandemic/) - Coping with the holiday’s in the midst of a pandemic The holidays are often a stressful and demanding time. Adding the pandemic into the mix can make this year seem downright unbearable. However, we would like to share some practical tips that can minimize the stress and hopefully add joy into the this unusual holiday - [Using Humor](https://lfcsmo.org/humor/) - Whether your children are returning to the classroom or participating in virtual learning, the beginning of school year is upon us. Although the situation is no laughing matter, remember to find time for humor. The philosopher Aristotle once said, “Laughter is a bodily exercise, precious to health.” Charlie Chaplin believed that “To truly laugh, you - [4 Reasons to Make an Estate Plan](https://lfcsmo.org/4-reasons-estate-plan/) - Estate planning really is for everyone. Without a plan in place, there may be a long-lasting impact on your loved ones. Consider these four reasons why you should have an estate plan, in order to avoid potentially devastating consequences. Prevents Your Assets From Ending Up With Unintended Beneficiaries If estate planning was once considered something - [Help on Hard Days](https://lfcsmo.org/help-on-hard-days/) - Whew! Are you feeling like these days are hard? The kids have all been out of school for over two months, and we still have a whole summer to get through! Many of you have been working (or trying to work) from home. Some of you may not be unemployed because of the pandemic. Or - [Mental Health and Motherhood](https://lfcsmo.org/mental-health-and-motherhood/) - When you think of someone suffering from mental health issues, what thoughts come to mind? Do you think “they need to toughen up” or “pull it together” or “it’s all in their head”? The truth is, we are all human. We all deal with difficult circumstances in life, and we are all susceptible to mental - [We are here for you](https://lfcsmo.org/we-are-here-for-you/) - Together we face uncertainty, worry, and sudden changes that affect both our personal and professional lives. We all feel the impact. How we react to these unforeseen disruptions will make a difference in our lives as well as those we love. LFCS is adapting because children and families in Missouri remain our priority. As - [Learning Resiliency](https://lfcsmo.org/learning-resiliency/) - Now more than ever, kids are being exposed to mature content. With a 24-hour news cycle, issues in our schools and communities, media outlets such as YouTube, and gaming being more accessible than ever, it's hard to escape. This exposure often occurs without an adult's knowledge because it is so prevalent. Our best option as - [Openness: Adoption Today](https://lfcsmo.org/openness-adoption/) - In 2017, American Adoptions reported that 95% of today’s adoptions involve some level of openness, whether they are mediated, fully open or somewhere in between. So what does openness really mean in adoption? Is it sharing the responsibility of parenthood? Is it having an open house to the birth family at any time? Does it - [Childhood Gripped by Anxiety](https://lfcsmo.org/gripped-by-anxiety/) - What happens when childhood becomes gripped by anxiety and fear? Maya was a typical elementary school student. She had a several friends, enjoyed going to school and spent two nights a week at the dance studio. Unfortunately, as the years passed, school shootings became a more common occurrence. Intruder drills had to be practiced and - [School Starts Soon](https://lfcsmo.org/school-starts-soon/) - It's time for new backpacks and lunch boxes, freshly sharpened pencils, packs of markers, and piles of glue sticks. It also means new classrooms, meeting the teachers, homework assignments, riding the bus and being surrounded by other students. For many kids, this is an exciting time. But for some, heading back to school is a - [Journey to Parenthood](https://lfcsmo.org/journey-to-parenthood/) - Meet Aubren and Zach. They came to LFCS several years ago to learn more about foster care and adoption services. Their journey to parenthood took several interesting turns, but the support from LFCS made the difference. Watch below to learn about their experience. To begin your journey to parenthood through foster care, contact us - [Surviving the Shame of Sexual Abuse](https://lfcsmo.org/surviving-sexual-abuse/) - Darren spent four years feeling isolated and ashamed after being sexually abused by a close family friend. The idea of telling his parents terrified him. “Would they believe me? Would they think this was my fault?” he thought. Rather than speak up, Darren slowly withdrew from the bright child everyone had known him as and - [Beating the odds](https://lfcsmo.org/beating-the-odds/) - Shawn is growing up surrounded by crime, violence and poverty. His mom works two jobs to pay rent, utilities, and very few extras. As a single parent, she does her best to be present for her children and to give them a place to call home, but the neighborhood can be rough. Over the years, Shawn - [Promise of a Forever Family](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-forever-family/) - Every child deserves a forever family and a home where they feel safe and loved. But sadly, thousands of Missouri children live day-in and day-out in fear and uncertainty. Fourteen-year-old Jenny was one of them. By age nine, the little girl had faced more hardships than most people do in a lifetime. “I lived with - [Promise of Family through Adoption](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-family-adoption/) - Heather & Longley's Story Even before learning they were unable to have biological children, Heather and Longley considered adoption. But as a U.S. Navy test pilot, the couple rarely stayed in one place long enough to even consider the idea. That was until they landed in St. Louis. A three-year commitment gave them enough time to - [Promise of Family through Reunification](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-family/) - Family means something different for just about everyone. Ideally, family means the people who love and care for you; those you see everyday, parents, grandparents or siblings. What happens when that ideal shifts or breaks apart? At LFCS, we work to make sure that family is forever in all the ways it is formed. Jeremiah's - [Promise of a Future](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-future/) - Kim is 20 years old and full of promise for her future. You would never know her years of struggle and heartbreak at first glance. She entered foster care for the first time as a baby, after her mom lost custody of her and her brothers. Kim’s father eventually became her guardian. But after he died - [Promise of Fatherhood](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-fatherhood/) - Fatherhood is traditionally summarized as providing for and protecting your children, but can dads be more than that? At LFCS, we see men taking very active roles in the upbringing of children and it's inspiring. These men are biological dads, adoptive dads, foster dads, grandfathers, and others who truly care. Here are a few examples... Gerald, LFCS - [Promise of Safety - Recovering from Abuse](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-safety-abuse/) - Bentley was just four-months old when he was brought into the care of LFCS. After his birth parents shook and suffocated him to near death, he spent three weeks in the ICU recovering. The abuse left Bentley blind and with a feeding tube. That was just the beginning of the diagnoses. Doctors expected multiple physical disabilities - [Promise of Safety - Foster Care Reunification](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-foster-care-reunification/) - LFCS promises to keep families safe, healthy, and together. Foster care reunification is one way we keep that promise, but the path for parents is not always easy. Sha Sha knows. She faced the reality of losing her children. See how she handled it. - [A Promise of Love - Foster Care and Family Services](https://lfcsmo.org/promise-love-foster-care-family/) - Love, Foster Care and Family When we are young, we assume we will fall in love, get married, and children will follow. But starting a family is not always as easy as we might assume. Adopting from foster care was not the path to parenthood Ericka and Brad expected, but then they met Destiny. The rest, as they say, - [How to Give When It's Hard](https://lfcsmo.org/how-to-give-when-its-hard/) - Change is hard. No matter if you're starting a new job, building a new home, getting married or divorced, or dealing with some other major life event, you have to learn to make adjustments. The same can be said about your charitable giving. If your financial situation changes, consider a giving adjustment that doesn't affect - [Fear of the Unknown](https://lfcsmo.org/fear-of-the-unknown/) - Fear of the unknown is difficult in any situation, but in adoption it is a lifelong fear. Larry and Jennifer have experienced this fear in many aspects along their adoption journey. The couple has adopted two boys as infants through LFCS. The drastic differences between their adoptions made Larry and Jennifer realize the uniqueness of - [Happiness](https://lfcsmo.org/happiness/) - Do you struggle to find happiness in your life? If so, there are ways to increase your happiness. Try one (or all) of these easy, yet impactful practices the next time you are struggling to see the positives in your life: Keep a gratitude journal. There are a few different ways to reflect gratitude. One way - [What is Bullying?](https://lfcsmo.org/what-is-bullying/) - Bullying is described as an aggressive, intentional and repeated behavior towards another person that involves an imbalance of strength or power. There are several examples of bullying: Emotional (threats, social exclusion, intimidating gestures) Physical (hitting, punching, kicking) Verbal (name calling, teasing, threats) Sexual Cyberbullying (online harassment) Because children spend about six to eight hours a - [2017 Suicide Prevention Week](https://lfcsmo.org/2017-suicide-prevention-week/) - September 11-16, 2017 According to the CDC, suicide is the second leading cause of death for individuals ages 10-34. Suicide is a serious public health problem that can have lasting harmful effects on individuals, families, and communities. While the causes of suicide are complex and determined by multiple factors, the goal of suicide prevention is simple: - [Coping with Test Anxiety](https://lfcsmo.org/coping-test-anxiety/) - An increased level of anxiety when taking a test is normal in students and can sometimes even motivate students to prepare and do well on a test. However, some students experience a high level of anxiety when taking a test that can present itself in physical, emotional, and behavioral symptoms. There can be several causes - [Lost - Battling Postpartum Depression](https://lfcsmo.org/lost-battling-postpartum-depression/) - A new mother knew something didn't feel right, but didn't know it was postpartum depression. For as long as I can remember, I've wanted to be a mom," says Missy Nichols of Columbia, MO. When she and her husband, Spencer, learned they were expecting their first baby in 2014, they were overjoyed. But on a - [Keeping Cool This Summer](https://lfcsmo.org/keeping-cool-this-summer/) - Missouri is no stranger to heat. Knowing how to care for yourself when the thermometer starts to rise is important. In case you are new to the area or need a reminder, here are a few tips to keep cool this summer. Stay out of the direct sun and heat. Spend as many hours as - [The Stress of Moving](https://lfcsmo.org/stress-moving/) - With each passing week of summer, for sale signs seem to pop up more and more in area neighborhoods. With the excitement of a new home, comes the stress of moving. This stress isn't just felt by the parents. Kid are also impacted when their entire lives are placed into boxes and carried off to - [Kids and Car Rides](https://lfcsmo.org/kids-car-rides/) - A mother of two small children recently made a 14-hour journey from Missouri to the magical world of Disney. How, you may ask yourself, was she able to help her children avoid having meltdowns from being strapped in a car seat for that long? Here are a two tricks to try with your kids on your next car ride: Treats - [4 Easy Ways to Include LFCS in Your Giving Plan](https://lfcsmo.org/include-lfcs-in-your-giving-plan/) - What's your giving plan? For decades, Lutheran Family and Children's Services has benefited from the generosity of people who remembered this important organization in their estate planning. Such support is extremely important to us because it sustains vital programs that ensure the health of children and families across Missouri. Here are four ways you might consider including - [Pregnancy, Abuse and Depression](https://lfcsmo.org/pregnancy-abuse-depression/) - Rachel was pregnant with her first daughter. She was out of work, living in a remote area, and traveling over an hour for her prenatal care and other appointments. Enduring domestic abuse at the hands of her boyfriend, Rachel felt scared, depressed and disconnected. She needed help. That's when she found LFCS. Rachel began meeting with an LFCS social worker regularly. She was taught - [Positive Conflict Resolution Ideas for Parents](https://lfcsmo.org/positive-conflict-resolution-ideas-for-parents/) - Maranda stood in the kitchen washing dishes. She was thinking about what to make for dinner and the hundred other things on her to do list while her kids played quietly in the next room. The calm moment didn’t last long as the familiar sound of blocks falling to the ground and the children shouting at one another - [Support through my Unexpected Pregnancy](https://lfcsmo.org/support-unexpected-pregnancy/) - My life was going great! After working hard for years, I finally got a good job. It paid well above minimum wage and even offered health benefits and vacation. I also started back to school to earn a degree in my field. That's when I found out I was pregnant. I was caught completely off guard. School and work became more - [The Truth of Pregnancy and Parenting](https://lfcsmo.org/truth-pregnancy-parenting/) - Pregnancy and parenting can be a challenge for even experienced parents. Knowing the truth may ease your mind. If you, or someone you know, needs help managing during pregnancy or while parenting, LFCS may be able to help. We offer crisis pregnancy services, parenting support and more. Contact us today for more information. Until then, - [Missouri Foster Care Facts & Figures](https://lfcsmo.org/missouri-foster-care-facts-figures/) - Thousands of people across the state of Missouri are impacted by foster care each year. Want to know how? Here are some facts and figures: The average length of stay for a Missouri child in foster care is 2 years. There are over 68,000 reported incidents of neglect in Missouri last year. 19,400 children are in - [Tax-Saving Way to Help LFCS](https://lfcsmo.org/tax-saving-way-help-lfcs/) - Looking for a tax-saving way to help Lutheran Family and Children's Services? Consider an IRA Rollover. SEE YOUR GENEROSITY IN ACTION If you are 70½ years old or older, you can take advantage of a simple way to benefit Lutheran Family and Children's Services and receive tax benefits in return. You can give up to $100,000 - [LFCS Provides Crisis Care](https://lfcsmo.org/lfcs-provides-crisis-care/) - Are you facing a life crisis and need care for your child? Did you know that Lutheran Family and Children’s Services can help? Before taking out your depression, anxiety, or hopelessness on your kids, contact LFCS. Homelessness, domestic violence, loss of a job, loss of a spouse/significant other, drug issues, and mental issues can push a parent - [Warning Signs of Child Abuse](https://lfcsmo.org/warning-signs-child-abuse/) - Child abuse is not always obvious. But by learning some of the common warning signs of abuse and neglect, you can catch the problem as early as possible and get both the child and the abuser the help that they need. Of course, just because you spot a red flag doesn’t automatically mean a child - [Myths & Facts about Abuse](https://lfcsmo.org/myths-facts-about-abuse/) - Bruises and broken bones are not the only indicators of abuse. Deep scars left by neglect or emotional abuse may go unseen, but have lasting impact. Breaking the cycle of abuse is needed for so many children, but first we need to know more about it. Here are some common myths and facts about abuse. Myth: It's only - [How Domestic Violence Impacts Children](https://lfcsmo.org/domestic-violence-impacts-children/) - When we hear the words “domestic violence,” it is probably not children who immediately enter our minds. However, children are profoundly impacted by domestic violence in their homes. According to Children of Domestic Violence, 90% of parents who currently engage in domestic violence believe that their children do not know about it. However, when asking - [How to Stop Aggressive Behavior](https://lfcsmo.org/stop-aggressive-behavior/) - Because aggressive behavior can often lead to violence, learning how to de-escalate feelings is an important life skill for children and teens. Here at LFCS, we teach kids how to be in charge of their feelings through evidence-based programs. Are you struggling with an aggressive child? Follow the tips below based on our current practices. Empathize. Express that you know - [How to Help Kids Feel Safe after Tragedy](https://lfcsmo.org/help-kids-feel-safe-tragedy/) - In the days and weeks following a high-profile tragedy, kids may have a lot of questions about whether something like this could happen to them. In fact, parents themselves may have a lot of worries about the safety of raising children in this world. It's normal for both adults and kids to feel anxious after - [Exploring Gender Roles and Cultural Stereotypes](https://lfcsmo.org/gender-roles-and-stereotypes/) - What are we teaching today's generation about gender roles? Is it time to challenge and overcome stereotypes? Here are two films that reflect on current culture. Will they inspire community transformation? You tell us. The Mask You Live In and Miss Representation are currently available on Netflix. The Mask You Live In The Mask You Live In follows - [Helping Your Child Develop Social Skills](https://lfcsmo.org/helping-child-develop-social-skills/) - Has your child been having conflicts with peers or having difficulty making friends? As a parent, you want to help your child succeed in school, both academically and socially. If your child is struggling socially, you can help them by teaching them social skills at home that will lead to social success. This hand-out, from - [A Day as a School Counselor](https://lfcsmo.org/day-school-counselor/) - Maybe you’re wondering what exactly a school counselor does in a “typical” day. Maybe you’re picturing your high school guidance counselor sitting behind a desk talking about your schedule next semester. Maybe you’re picturing a cheerful counselor giving some inspirational speech about staying in school to a class of bored middle schoolers. Or, maybe you’ve - [2017 National School Counseling Week](https://lfcsmo.org/2017-national-school-counseling-week/) - It's National School Counseling Week! Comprehensive school counseling programs are a vital part of the educational process for all students as they meet the challenges of the 21st century. Not only do they help to increase student achievement, but professional school counselors serve as a much-needed resource for students, parents, teachers and administrators. Here are just - [Celebrate School Counseling Week](https://lfcsmo.org/celebrate-school-counseling-week/) - 2017 National School Counselor Appreciation Week is February 6-10! LFCS School Counselors will celebrate this special week in a wide variety of ways to focus awareness on their unique contributions to daily life in their schools. If you are looking for way to participate in the festivities, here are a few ideas: Create informative and - [Making It Last](https://lfcsmo.org/making-it-last/) - Making it Last By Lisa Von Wahlde, MSW, LCSW Although we live in a world with a variety of ways to ‘talk’ to people at our literal fingertips, it can still be a challenge to communicate within our closest relationships. Drs. John and Julie Gottman, experts in couple’s therapy, have researched couples over the past - [A Message to Caregivers and Caseworkers](https://lfcsmo.org/messsage-to-caregivers/) - Youth in foster care or kinship care often have experienced abuse, neglect, chaotic living situations, and placement(s) away from their families. Their histories can lead to complicated emotions and behaviors, and many experience trauma. While youth can heal, often it will take small steps over time with stability, supports, and services. To better understand the - [Open Adoption and Parenting](https://lfcsmo.org/open-adoption-parenting/) - Open adoptions are becoming more and more common. Even though both birth parents and adoptive parents may enter an open adoption willingly, there may be underlying fears that need to be addressed. We asked one of our adoptive mothers to weigh in on the issue. Here are her contributions: Q: Did you have any fears about - [The Importance of Family Togetherness](https://lfcsmo.org/importance-family-togetherness/) - Our lives today seem busier than ever, and family bonding time may seem hard to find. However, spending more time as a family can improve your child’s physical and mental health. The Family Dinner Project is an organization that teaches about the benefits of eating dinner together as a family and how to get started - [Building Self-Confidence](https://lfcsmo.org/building-self-confindence/) - During his 4th grade year, Eric participated in the LFCS program, Project STEPUp . After completing the 10-week Botvin LifeSkills program with the rest of his class, Eric's teacher referred him for one-on-one follow up coaching. He was showing very little motivation in school and was having a hard time making friends. Although Eric was a very sweet kid, he - [Five Reasons to Make a Year End GIft](https://lfcsmo.org/5-reasons-to-give/) - Need a reason to give a year-end gift? Here's five! Don't miss this opportunity to double your impact in the lives of children and families in Missouri. Every day, 1,200 U.S. kids enter foster care. We need your help to rescue them. Your support ensures that no one is ever turned away. Our donor match - [Your Opinion Matters!](https://lfcsmo.org/your-opinion-matters/) - Your opinion matters at LFCS! The mission of Lutheran Family and Children's Services is to help families, children and individuals experience greater hope and wholeness of life. One way we achieve this mission is through advocacy, but we need your help! What issues matter most to you? Affordable health care? Mental health services? Or maybe, pregnancy assistance? Tell us! - [Understanding Foster Care Adoption](https://lfcsmo.org/understanding-foster-care-adoption/) - November is my favorite month of the year! Not because it is my anniversary; not because I love turkey and pumpkin pie; not because I can officially start listening to Christmas music in public without judgmental looks. November is my favorite month of the year because of the light we are able to shed on - [Why I Foster](https://lfcsmo.org/why-i-foster/) - Why I Foster? For me, it is all about the bedtime routine. It brings me to literal tears thinking about kids going to bed at night without anyone kissing their forehead, tucking them in a cozy, warm bed, checking under their bed for monsters, or wishing them a peaceful night full of sweet and pleasant - [Text4Baby](https://lfcsmo.org/text4baby/) - Are you pregnant or parenting a child under 1 year? Did you know you can receive free texts on parenting and child development topics through your pregnancy and up to the baby’s first birthday? Text4baby makes it easy to get important information, and it's free. Women who text BABY (or BEBE for Spanish) to 511411 - [Importance of Self-Care](https://lfcsmo.org/importance-self-care/) - With the holidays quickly approaching, there has never been a better time to begin to practice self-care. Self-care is a preventative measure that helps individuals deal with daily life stressors before becoming overwhelmed. It is useful to think of self-care as a necessity, such as brushing your teeth or eating. According to Healthy Place, self-care - [Afterschool Activities](https://lfcsmo.org/afterschool-activities/) - What do your kids do after school each day? More than 26 percent of school-age children are on their own after school, according to the Afterschool Alliance. The hours between 3-6pm are reported as the peak times for juvenile crime and experimentation with drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, and sex. Lack of funds seem to be a main factor in kids - [ReMoved Part 2](https://lfcsmo.org/removed-part-2/) - It's important that anyone interested in becoming a foster parent understand their role. Remember My Story: Removed Part 2 provides a great example of what it means to be a foster parent and the impact you can have on a child in your care. Want to help children who have been placed in foster - [ReMoved](https://lfcsmo.org/removed/) - ReMoved tells the story of a young girl as she navigates her way through the foster care system after being removed from her home and separated from her younger brother. Intended as a training tool for those working in foster care or those interested in becoming foster parents, this film serves as a magnifying glass on children - [Missouri Adoptee Rights Act](https://lfcsmo.org/missouri-adoptee-rights-act-2/) - In May 2016, the Missouri legislature passed HB1599, the Missouri Adoptee Rights Act. This new legislation grants access to original birth certificates for anyone adopted in Missouri between 1941 and 1986. This is a wonderful opportunity for adoptees to learn more about their biological history. However, the law may compromise the rights of birth parents as original birth certificates - [I am that sister...](https://lfcsmo.org/i-am-that-sister/) - I am that sister... Watch this short video for an honest look at what it is like for the survivors of suicide. If you, or someone you love are struggling with depression, anxiety, or thoughts of suicide, contact LFCS today. We can help! - [Suicidal Thoughts and Understanding Suicide](https://lfcsmo.org/suicidal-thoughts-understanding-suicide/) - Having suicidal thoughts? If you are feeling suicidal, or if you want to end your life, it’s important that you keep yourself safe. Try to remember that thoughts about taking your life are just thoughts. You don’t have to act on them, no matter how overwhelming they are or how often you have them. You - [Common Misconceptions about Suicide](https://lfcsmo.org/common-misconceptions-suicide/) - It's important to understand that the stereotypes associated with suicide are just that. Read the following misconceptions about suicide for perspective. FALSE: People who talk about suicide won't really do it. Almost everyone who commits or attempts suicide has given some clue or warning. Do not ignore suicide threats. Statements like "you'll be sorry when - [Does my child need an IEP or 504 Plan?](https://lfcsmo.org/child-need-iep-504-plan/) - As another school year begins, you may have questions about your child's education and performance in the classroom. Here is a look at IEPs and 504 Plans to help you better understand their purpose and benefits if your child may require intervention. Do you think that your child may have a learning disability, serious emotional disturbance, - [Anxiety in Children](https://lfcsmo.org/anxiety-in-children/) - Some worrying and anxiety is a normal part of childhood, especially as it relates to specific times in development. Perhaps your young child is afraid of the dark, spiders, or storms. These are common fears that likely do not greatly impact their everyday lives. Anxiety can become a problem in children when they become overly - [The Differences Between Open & Closed Adoptions](https://lfcsmo.org/open-closed-adoptions/) - What are Open, Closed, Semi-Open and Semi-Closed Adoptions? An open adoption is an adoption where all identifying information is shared between the biological parents and the adoptive family, including last names, addresses, phone numbers and birth dates. It also usually includes on-going visits or meetings throughout the child’s life. Many people think this is the - [5 Reasons to Make an Estate Plan](https://lfcsmo.org/5-reasons-to-make-an-estate-plan/) - You don’t need to be wealthy to make a plan for your assets. Some people think they don’t have enough assets to make an estate plan. But creating an estate plan can be beneficial even to those without a significant nest egg. Here are five reasons estate planning can be advantageous to not just your - [Keep Your Child Learning This Summer!](https://lfcsmo.org/keep-your-child-learning-this-summer/) - 10 St. Louis Activities to Keep Your Child Learning This Summer Yay, it’s summertime! This is what most school age children are yelling at the top of their lungs right about now. This is exciting for parent as well, but also a little nerve wrecking. Our children have learned so much throughout the school year, - [Upcoming Parenting Trainings](https://lfcsmo.org/upcoming-parenting-trainings/) - From Chaos to Calm: Why Behavior Modification Doesn’t Work with Our Kids, and What Does, pt 1 June 2 @ 7:30 pm - 9:00 pm CDT Event Navigation « Hope for Healing Online Training Series, Part 5 ATTACh Awareness & Fundraiser @ Buffalo Wild Wings » From Chaos to Calm: Why Behavior Modification Doesn’t Work - [Mindfulness](https://lfcsmo.org/mindfulness/) - What is Mindfulness and why does it matter? Why did Time Magazine do a cover story on it recently? Mindfulness is the act of paying attention to what is happening in the present moment, with a non-judgmental attitude. It is a conscious effort to be fully aware of the present moment. It is the opposite - [Early Head Start Program begins at Hilltop](https://lfcsmo.org/early-head-start-hilltop/) - LFCS Partners with Youth In Need in the Early Head Start Expansion Grant St. Louis, Missouri (May 25, 2016) – Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Missouri (LFCS) is proud to be a partnering site for the Youth In Need early Head Start Child Care Partnership and Early Head Start Expansion Grant. This grant allows - [What is Mental Illness?](https://lfcsmo.org/what-is-mental-illness/) - Mental illnesses are medical conditions that can alter a person’s thinking, feeling, mood, relationships and daily functioning. Like diabetes or heart disease, mental illness is a medical condition that can result in a diminished capacity for coping with the ordinary demands of life. Sometimes the inability to cope can lead to a mental health crisis. - [Six Tips for Parents](https://lfcsmo.org/six-tips-for-parents/) - Parents, dealing with your little one’s behavior can be challenging at times. Other times, let’s face it, it’s just downright aggravating. Every child is different and as they grow you’ll learn what works for them, but here are a few tips for parents to remember about kids regarding behaviors and consequences. 1) Try to determine the - [Top 10 Reasons to Read with Your Child](https://lfcsmo.org/top-10-reasons-to-read-with-your-child/) - As a parent educator, I consistently work with busy parents who spend most of the day navigating their and their children’s busy schedules. Getting to work each morning can require a 1-2 hour commute via bus or car. Throw in dropping off children at child care, working long hours, and the long commute home and - [Being Emotionally Invested](https://lfcsmo.org/being-emotionally-invested/) - As foster parents, we have to walk a fine line between being 100% emotionally invested in the kids in our care, but not at all attached to any particular outcome. When I started writing this article, it was titled, “The Dangers of Optimism in Foster Parenting.” As I began to write, though, I realized the - [Grief and Loss in Adoption](https://lfcsmo.org/grief-and-loss-in-adoption/) - By Meg Roetta, MSW, LMSW Grief and loss is an abstract term that we tend to associate with death. Grief makes us uncomfortable; we can’t fix or make it all better. So our society tries to confine it into steps, into a process and organize it into the perfect box that we can understand and - [Fill the Food Pantry](https://lfcsmo.org/fill-the-food-pantry/) - Did you know that LFCS has a small food closet in their St. Louis headquarters? It’s true! LFCS served over 50 different households in 2015. We use it to help our families when they are in a food crisis situation. We store dry and canned goods, as well as personal care items. The primary purpose - [Addressing Anger in Children](https://lfcsmo.org/addressing-anger/) - Do you feel like you have an angry kid? Anger is a normal emotion that everyone feels sometimes. Some people can manage their anger appropriately, while others struggle with this. As children grow, they are learning how to cope with their feelings and anger. Here are some general tips to help your children learn to - [Lauren's Success](https://lfcsmo.org/laurens-success/) - Lauren is a 21-year-old single mom who inspires all who have the privilege of meeting her. She works full-time at a local daycare and goes to college part-time. She became a client at LFCS over 3 years ago when she found out she was pregnant with her son. At that time, Lauren was in her senior year - [Understanding Embryo Adoption](https://lfcsmo.org/understanding-embryo-adoption/) - Have you completed your family through in vitro fertilization (IVF)? Do you have frozen embryos in storage from those procedures? There are currently over 600,000 frozen embryos in storage in the United States. If you are one of the families with these embryos, you have several options available to you. You can continue to keep - [LSSI Announces Major Cuts](https://lfcsmo.org/lssi-announces-major-cuts/) - As many are aware, Lutheran Social Services of Illinois recently announced major cuts – with plans to close 30 programs and eliminate more than 750 positions (over 40% of their work force). Lutheran Social Services of Illinois (LSSI) is the largest statewide provider of social services in the state, providing critical programs to the state’s - [LFCS Mentors](https://lfcsmo.org/lfcs-mentors/) - January is National Mentor Month At LFCS, our CALL and CHOICES mentor programs provide this valuable service to many young people throughout St. Louis. Our mentors work with children after school and all day throughout the summer and encourage smart daily behaviors, such as finishing homework, encouraging positive social interactions, and the ability to say - [Are you getting enough sleep?](https://lfcsmo.org/are-you-getting-enough-sleep/) - According to the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, more than 70 million Americans have a sleep disorder, and most are completely unaware that they could be getting better sleep. Inadequate sleep can cause impaired memory and thought processes, depression, increased perception of pain and decreased immune response. Sleep also seems to affect weight, as your - [Supply Pick-Up for Flood Victims](https://lfcsmo.org/supply-pick-up-for-flood-vicitims/) - Residents of Franklin, Jefferson and St. Louis Counties Impacted by Flood Invited to Drive-Thru Supply Pick Up SAINT LOUIS (January 4, 2016) — Franklin, Jefferson and St. Louis County Offices of Emergency Management, in conjunction with the State Emergency Management Agency, the St. Louis Area Regional COAD and MOVOAD partners, are sponsoring a regional point - [Resolutions for 2016](https://lfcsmo.org/2016-resolutions/) - We all make New Year’s resolutions with good intentions – lose 20 pounds, or quit smoking, or get organized. But let’s face it, the majority of us end the year in the same place we began it (or possibly with another 5 pounds of holiday weight.) In 2016, why not set a reasonable goal that - [Emotional Health - Depression](https://lfcsmo.org/emotional-health-depression/) - Understanding Depression Depression is a common condition that affects 1 in 10 Americans each year. It can affect a person of any age, race or social standing. People misunderstand depression to be sadness, or a down mood that you can just snap out of. This isn’t the case. Job loss, divorce or the death of - [Gaming and the Parent-Child Relationship](https://lfcsmo.org/gaming-with-your-child/) - Countless studies show how important it is for parents to play with their young children. The developmentally positive effects on social skills, physical and emotional regulation, and creativity are seemingly endless. Parents fulfill roles as a teacher and guide as a child plays. They offer coaching and support when a child is getting overly frustrated. - [Emotional Health - Stress Management](https://lfcsmo.org/emotional-health-stress-management/) - What is stress? Life asks a lot of us – spouses, jobs, arguments with friends, sick pets – and at a certain point we have more to deal with than we can handle emotionally.1 That’s when stress kicks in. It’s your response to danger You know the feeling – sweaty palms, racing heartbeat, an - [Is Minecraft Bad for My Child?](https://lfcsmo.org/is-minecraft-bad-for-my-child/) - by Albert Thrower, MSW, LMSW If you’re the parent of a child old enough to operate a smartphone or computer, you have probably heard of Minecraft. It’s the third-best-selling video game of all time, and it has become a popular pastime for millions of kids. As a family therapist, I have met more than a - [Family Dinner!](https://lfcsmo.org/family-dinner/) - Our lives today seem busier than ever, and family bonding time may seem hard to find. However, spending more time as a family can improve your child’s physical and mental health. The Family Dinner Project is an organization that teaches about the benefits of eating dinner together as a family and how to get started - [LFCS Making a Difference!](https://lfcsmo.org/lfcs-making-a-difference/) - Check out this video clip from Springfield's KSPR showing how LFCS is making a difference in the Southwest Region! - [Challenge Your Views About Adopting from Foster Care](https://lfcsmo.org/challenge-your-views-about-adopting-from-foster-care/) - The Today Show "Parents" segment shared '18 photos and 6 facts that could challenge views about adopting from foster care.' CLICK HERE to read the article. - [A Small Act of Kindness Made Me Smile](https://lfcsmo.org/a-small-act-of-kindness-made-me-smile/) - ~by Janice Raeber, Vice President - LFCS Foundation On my way in to work today, I decided to splurge and drove through McDonald's for a vanilla iced coffee. When I reached window #1, I was told that the gentleman ahead of me had paid for my breakfast. I was, for a second or two, stunned. - [What to do if your child is self-injuring](https://lfcsmo.org/what-to-do-if-your-child-is-self-injuring/) - Blog by LFCS Therapist, Kelli Manoogian, MA, LPC Self-injury is a topic that is being brought up more frequently related to children and adolescents. Many parents are bewildered as to what self-injury is and how to address it when they have concerns regarding their child. Self-injury can also be called or known as self-harm, cutting, - [How should you talk to your kids about weight?](https://lfcsmo.org/how-should-you-talk-to-your-kids-about-weight/) - The best answer, according to the experts, is not at all. You may wonder why this is the advice. But, think about it – was it ever fun when your parents talked to you about your weight? Odds are that it wasn’t. Sometimes the things that parents say with the best of intentions can actually - [Importance of exercise for children’s mental health](https://lfcsmo.org/importance-of-exercise-for-childrens-mental-health/) - Do your children get enough exercise? It is important that children get adequate exercise in order to prevent physical health concerns and obesity. However, it is also extremely important for their mental health. It is recommended that children ages six to 17 get at least 60 minutes of physical activity each day. Improving your general - [Goodbye School, Hello Summer](https://lfcsmo.org/goodbye-school-hello-summer/) - It seems as though we have finally settled into our school year routines and then summer break jolts us into another transition. Camps, swim teams, vacation bible school and a litany of other activities replace the established routine. It is a time of transition for parents as well as children. But for many families it - [Check Out Our New Planned Giving Website](https://lfcsmo.org/check-out-our-new-website/) - There are many ways to make an impact at Lutheran Family and Children's Services, and we want to help you plan a gift that fits your goals. Our new website puts the gift planning resources you need at your fingertips. On our new site, you can: Find the right gift for you based on your - [Summer Food Pantry Drive ~ June 8-12, 2015](https://lfcsmo.org/summer-food-pantry-drive-june-8-12-2015/) - Summer can be the hungriest time of year for many children from low-income families, as schools close and regular school meals disappear. LFCS collects food and household staples to share with clients and community members and we need your help to ensure that we can help those in need this summer! We will be - [2015 Princesses & Me Tea is Back...and Better!](https://lfcsmo.org/2015-princesses-me-tea-is-back-and-better/) - The LFCS 2015 Princesses & Me Tea is back and it’s better than ever! Save the Date for Saturday, October 10th, 10am at the Ramada Plaza Hotel and Oasis Convention Center. Mothers, Grandmothers, Aunts, Godmothers, and everyone in the Southwest Missouri Kingdom are invited to bring their little princesses and princes in their favorite costume - [Eating Disorders in Kids and Teens](https://lfcsmo.org/eating-disorders-in-kids-and-teens/) - Eating disorders are very serious and potentially life threatening conditions that affect millions of children, teenagers, and adults. According to the National Eating Disorders Association, 20 million women and 10 million men in the United States suffer from a clinically significant eating disorder at some time in their life. The National Institute of Mental Health - [2015 Mother's Day Gift Ideas (Adoption-Themed!)](https://lfcsmo.org/2015-mothers-day-gift-ideas-adoption-themed/) - Are you searching for the perfect Mother's Day gift? Get inspired here! 'Adoptive Families' Magazine has put together a great Mother's Day gift-giving directory, which presents a selection of heritage and adoption products. CLICK HERE to take a look. Happy Shopping! - [Why is my child struggling in school?](https://lfcsmo.org/why-is-my-child-struggling-in-school/) - If your child is struggling in school, it is important to look at the “big picture” and consider a number of possible factors. Perhaps you may think that your child is not trying hard enough or doesn’t care, but acting like he or she does not care may actually be a coping mechanism. This article - [Play Therapy at LFCS](https://lfcsmo.org/play-therapy-at-lfcs/) - Blog by Rose Schaedler, LFCS Therapist First, what is play therapy? According to the Association for Play Therapy, it is described as: “… a structured, theoretically based approach to therapy that builds on the normal communicative and learning processes of children (Carmichael, 2006; Landreth, 2002; O'Connor & Schaefer, 1983). The curative powers inherent in play - [LFCS Featured on KFUO ~ Adoption](https://lfcsmo.org/lfcs-featured-on-kfuo-adoption/) - In February LFCS was featured on KFUO (AM850). Christine Corcoran, LFCS' Statewide Director of Child Welfare, and David Pennington, LFCS Board Member who was adopted through LFCS, were interviewed by Andy Bates. David talked about his adoption experience and Christine shared about the work of LFCS in the adoption field. Take a listen and be - [Finding Selflessness ~ A Birth Mom's Story](https://lfcsmo.org/finding-selflessness-birth-moms-story/) - November is National Adoption Month. LFCS is an expert in the field. We work with birth parents, adoptive parents and foster parents. We are here to help, and we are inspired by the families we touch each and every day. Read this essay that one of our birth moms, Allison, recently shared...you'll be inspired, too. Finding - [](https://lfcsmo.org/1920-2/) - Vince Seyer from the Cape Girardeau area was nominated by LFCS and selected by Heartland News KFVS12 as an 'Everyday Hero.' Vince donates his time and his singing abilities for senior citizens who participate in the Memory Loss Group offered by the Southeast Office of Lutheran Family. Vince truly is an 'Everyday Hero!' CLICK HERE to - [New Guidelines in Effect for the Universal Accreditation Act](https://lfcsmo.org/new-guidelines-effect-universal-accreditation-act/) - We get a lot of inquiries regarding families that want to do an independent intercountry adoption. With the Universal Accreditation Act that went into effect on July 14, 2014, there are the new guidelines. Families cannot adopt independently or with a facilitator unless they are an accredited or approved primary provider. Click Here for details from - [Nina Jonio Presenting in Springfield on Neurological Reorganization](https://lfcsmo.org/1590-2/) - On Saturday and Sunday August 23-24 from 9 a.m. - 6 p.m. Nina Jonio is presenting a 'Neurological Reorganization Introductory Workshop' at The Creamery Arts Center (411 N. Sherman Parkway) in Springfield. Who should attend this workshop? Parents already doing NR with their child or thinking about NR and who would like a deeper understanding - [Putting Kids First in Cape Girardeau County](https://lfcsmo.org/putting-kids-first-cape-girardeau-county/) - For over three years, LFCS and other organizations and individuals concerned about the well-being of kids in Cape Girardeau County have been meeting as the 'Putting Kids First Coalition.' In 2011 the coalition commissioned a formal needs assessment to uncover the real unmet needs of children in Cape Girardeau County. The results were disturbing, showing - [Providing Services in Mid-Missouri](https://lfcsmo.org/providing-services-mid-missouri/) - The Mid-Missouri office covers 53 counties in Missouri. Our staff cover all of the Northeast and Northwest part of Missouri, Kansas City, Columbia, Jefferson City, and all surrounding areas. We are here to serve you! Our region has the following main programs: Birth Parent Counseling/WINGS (Women In Need Growing Stronger)/Resource Parent Program ~Free counseling services to - [What is Youth Mentoring and Development and Why is it Important?](https://lfcsmo.org/youth-mentoring-development-important/) - What is a mentor? A mentor is a person or a friend who guides a less experienced person through various aspects of life by building a relationship based on trust and positive behaviors. Youth mentoring guarantees a young person that they are not alone. Whether a young person is studying for a test, looking for - [Raising Girls Is Harder Than Ever These Days](https://lfcsmo.org/raising-girls-harder-ever-days/) - The world bombards girls with distractions, false images, and questionable role models every day. It’s no wonder we are seeing so much depression, self-injury, and relational aggression (a.k.a. mean girls) in the women of tomorrow. A Mighty Girl is a wonderful website that offers information and resources to girls and their parents to help them - [Get Involved as an OASIS Tutor!](https://lfcsmo.org/get-involved-oasis-tutor/) - Looking for a great new way to volunteer? Share your love of reading with a child and open the door to the world for them! OASIS, an Intergenerational Tutoring Program, is found in Lutheran schools all across the country. For less than 1-2 hours a week, your help and attention can make a big difference - [Pregnant and Scared: Now What?](https://lfcsmo.org/pregnant-scared-now/) - Decisions, decisions, decisions. Making decisions can be overwhelming and empowering all at the same time. You get to decide what this life you hold in your hands turns out to be. What future do you want your child to have? Can you provide it or will someone else? Whether you choose to parent your child - [Letter for a Birth Mom](https://lfcsmo.org/letter-birth-mom/) - It has been almost five years since I made an adoption plan with your office for my unborn son. He was placed in a wonderful loving home and I am eternally grateful for the caring staff I had met while I was making the hardest decision I ever had to make. I can still remember - [Pregnancy Frequently Asked Questions](https://lfcsmo.org/pregnancy-frequently-asked-questions/) - How do I receive services? Just call LFCS and our friendly intake specialist will answer your immediate questions. They will determine which program best meets your needs. If you desire, a social worker will be assigned to meet with you to learn more about you and your situation and to talk with you about how - [How do I become a Foster/Adopt Parent?](https://lfcsmo.org/become-fosteradopt-parent/) - Enroll in STARS training at LFCS: The free, 27 hour foster parent training program that will prepare you to meet the five foster care competencies: protect and nurture foster children meet children’s developmental needs and address developmental delays support relationships between children and their families connect children with safe, nurturing relationships - [May is Foster Parent Appreciation Month!](https://lfcsmo.org/may-foster-parent-appreciation-month/) - Galatians 5:22 “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness” This bible verse embodies the work that foster parents do 365 days a year, 24 hours a day. They are the silent partners, caregivers, cheerleaders and supporters of the children and families they serve. By opening their homes and - [To Love the Babies](https://lfcsmo.org/love-babies/) - My mom is the definition of a free spirit. She's very spontaneous, funny, loving, and although I love her personality most of the time, some of her impromptu decisions have had dramatic effects on my family and my routine-oriented personality. One crisp, autumn day when I was in 7th grade, my mom announced we would begin - [Thoughts About Attachment Needs](https://lfcsmo.org/thoughts-attachment-needs/) - "Fear of abandonment" is a phrase that is not uncommon and is likely to evoke in each of us an immediate and frightened response. Our human need to be dependably attached to another person is known to be "wired in" to each of us. The stability and security of that emotional attachment is a foundation - [LFCS Works with Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)](https://lfcsmo.org/lfcs-works-autism-spectrum-disorders-asd/) - One in 68 U.S. children has an autism spectrum disorder (ASD), a 30% increase from 1 in 88 two years ago, according to a new report issued by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The new statistics raise significant concerns about access to care, because autism is a lifelong disorder and the need for - [How To Keep Your Teenager Out Of Trouble This Summer](https://lfcsmo.org/keep-teenager-trouble-summer/) - If left to their own devices, a teenager may manage to find trouble in the most unexpected places. Sometimes teenagers have poor judgment. Sometimes they just do stuff because they think it will be fun. They rarely think about the possible negative consequences or outcomes before they act. So, if you want to keep your - [What are Open, Closed, Semi-Open and Semi-Closed Adoptions?](https://lfcsmo.org/open-closed-semi-open-semi-closed-adoptions/) - An open adoption is an adoption where all identifying information is shared between the biological parents and the adoptive family, including last names, addresses, phone numbers and birth dates. It also usually includes on-going visits or meetings throughout the child’s life. Many people think this is the perfect arrangement for someone who is not quite - [An Adoption Story](https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-story/) - Family is a word that has precious meaning. Some people take family for granted, not realizing there are couples who are yearning to be parents and become a family. For some couples, becoming a family is a physical and emotional struggle. And then for others it happens exactly how they planned it. Our family story ## Pages - [Home](https://lfcsmo.org/) - Looking for guidance and care? LFCS provides adoption, counseling, foster care, and resources to help Missouri’s children and families flourish. - [The World at Your Doorstep](https://lfcsmo.org/the-world-at-your-doorstep/) - THE WORLD AT YOUR DOORSTEP LFCS 43rd Annual Gala and Auction Join us for the LFCS Annual Gala and Auction Benefiting Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Missouri. Saturday, September 26 at 5 p.m. FOUR SEASONS HOTEL ST. LOUIS Open bar, cocktails Live & silent auctions Dinner Achievement awards Dancing Music Registration Reserve your seats - [Kansas City Office](https://lfcsmo.org/locations/kansas-city-office/) - Home 5 Locations 5 Kansas City Office Kansas City Region We're excited to announce that LFCS has expanded to a new location in Kansas City! This larger space will allow us to better serve our clients across northwest Missouri, providing more room for growth and enhanced services. We're looking forward to strengthening our connections and - [Locations](https://lfcsmo.org/locations/) - With offices across Missouri, LFCS offers vital services like adoption, foster care, and mental health support. Get the support you need at a location near you. - [Families Waiting to Adopt](https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-services/families-waiting-to-adopt/) - Find out how LFCS supports families waiting to adopt in Missouri and offers guidance throughout the adoption journey. - [Southwest Office](https://lfcsmo.org/locations/southwest-office/) - Home 5 Locations 5 Southwest Office Southwest Office In 1998, LFCS opened an office in Springfield, Missouri to meet the needs of parents in need of support and stability. Today, we are proud to use our one-on-one approach to provide resources and education to parents to help them overcome obstacles. Our office is located on - [Careers at LFCS](https://lfcsmo.org/careers/) - Home 5 Careers at LFCS Careers at LFCS Home 5 Careers at LFCS Make a difference doing what inspires you. Join a team where compassion meets purpose. For over 157 years, LFCS has been providing unwavering support to children and families. Whether you're on the front lines of service or behind the scenes, a recent - [Grievance Policy](https://lfcsmo.org/who-we-are/grievance-policy/) - Home 5 Who We Are 5 Grievance PolicyGrievance Policy LFCS wants you to be satisfied with the services that you receive. If you are unhappy with our service or with any agency procedure, policy, decision, or action taken by LFCS, we encourage you to discuss your concerns with the appropriate staff within the Agency. If - [Give From Your IRA](https://lfcsmo.org/donate/give-from-your-ira/) - Home 5 Donate 5 Give From Your IRAGive From Your IRA If you are 70½ or older, consider a tax-free securities gift from your IRA. When you give from your IRA, you can create meaningful impact today to help sustain our work without paying income taxes on the donation. To learn more about this or - [Planned Giving](https://lfcsmo.org/donate/planned-giving/) - Home 5 Donate 5 Planned GivingPlanned Giving When you include Lutheran Family and Children's Services of Missouri in your planned giving, your generosity empowers children and families to overcome challenges today so they can build a better tomorrow. Whether you're 25 or 85, we can help you explore the best options for making a - [Searching for Birth Parents](https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-services/birthparentsearch/) - Home 5 Adoption Services 5 Searching for Birth ParentsSearching for Birth Parents LFCS can help those searching for information regarding an adoption that occurred in Missouri. LFCS maintains both our own records and those of Provident Counseling (a.k.a. Family and Children’s Services). The document linked below provides information about the types of searches in Missouri - [Adoption Library](https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-services/adoption-library/) - LFCS Adoption Library Welcome to the LFCS Adoption Library — a collection of trusted resources to support you throughout every stage of the adoption journey. Whether you're an adoptee, adoptive parent, birth parent, or a professional working with adoptive families, you'll find tools here to inform, guide, and inspire. Explore both our free downloadable resources - [Free Adoption Resources](https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-services/free-adoption-resources/) - Home 5 Adoption Services 5 Free Adoption ResourcesFree Adoption Resources At LFCS, we know that adoption is a lifelong journey — one that can bring joy, complexity, and moments that require extra support. Whether you're an adoptive parent, an adoptee, a birth parent, or a professional who serves adoptive families, we want to provide resources - [Referrals](https://lfcsmo.org/referrals/) - Home 5 ReferralsRefer a Client to LFCS At Lutheran Family and Children's Services (LFCS), we believe that strong partnerships build stronger families. If you're a school counselor, healthcare provider, case manager, pastor, or another community-based professional, you can use this page to refer individuals and families in need of mental health services, psychiatry, or pregnancy - [Recommended Books](https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-services/books/) - Home 5 Adoption Services 5 Recommended BooksRecommended Books The staff at LFCS understand that adoption is not one moment in time but rather a life-long experience for all of those it touches. We have developed the following resources related to adoption and will be adding more soon! Empty to Full: A Journal for Infertility Grief - [Psychiatry](https://lfcsmo.org/behavioral-health/psychiatry/) - Get expert psychiatric care and support at LFCS to address mental health needs and improve well-being across Missouri. - [Therapy](https://lfcsmo.org/behavioral-health/therapy/) - Get therapy services at LFCS to address behavioral health concerns and help individuals and families in Missouri succeed. - [Adoptee Support](https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-services/adoptee-support/) - Connecting children in need with loving families through adoption services across Missouri. - [Adoptive Parents: Hoping to Adopt](https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-services/adoptive-parents/) - LFCS provides resources and guidance for adoptive parents in Missouri, helping through each step of the journey. - [Expectant/ Birth Parents: Considering Adoption](https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-services/expectant-birth-parents-considering-adoption/) - LFCS offers compassionate support for expectant birth parents exploring adoption options in Missouri. - [Philosophy of Care](https://lfcsmo.org/philosophy-of-care/) - Feel the compassionate and effective philosophy of care that guides Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Missouri in supporting families. - [Tax Credits](https://lfcsmo.org/donate/tax-credits/) - Home 5 Donate 5 Tax CreditsTax Credits Did you know that you can make your charitable dollars stretch further by using Missouri state tax credits for contributions to Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Missouri (LFCS)? LFCS has been approved by the Missouri Department of Social Services and the Missouri Department of Economic Development to - [Reporting Child Abuse and Neglect](https://lfcsmo.org/who-we-are/reporting-child-abuse-and-neglect/) - Home 5 Who We Are 5 Reporting Child Abuse and NeglectReporting Child Abuse and Neglect The Missouri Child Abuse and Neglect Hotline is a toll-free number that is answered 24 hours day, 365 days a year. Any person may report suspected child abuse or neglect anonymously; however it is recommended that you identify yourself to - [Blog](https://lfcsmo.org/blog/) - Stay up to date with LFCS. Our blog covers everything from adoption to parenting tips, and how we’re helping families thrive in Missouri. - [Thrivent Choice Dollars](https://lfcsmo.org/donate/thrivent-choice-dollars/) - Home 5 Donate 5 Thrivent Choice DollarsThrivent Choice Dollars If you’re a Thrivent Financial member you may have a designated portion of Thrivent’s Choice Dollars available for you to direct to your favorite charity…LFCS! And LFCS now gives you the ability to direct your Choice Dollars to your particular region. The impact of Choice Dollars - [Baby Bottle Boomerang](https://lfcsmo.org/donate/baby-bottle-boomerang/) - Home 5 Donate 5 Baby Bottle BoomerangBaby Bottle Boomerang Our Baby Bottle Boomerang effort is a great way for Sunday School groups, book clubs, Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts, and more to help LFCS by collecting loose change! Just pick up empty baby bottles from the LFCS office and pass them out to your group. - [Give Stock](https://lfcsmo.org/donate/give-stock/) - Home 5 Donate 5 Give StockGive Stock Stock that has increased in value is one of the most popular assets used for charitable giving, once it has been held for more than one year. Making a gift of securities to us offers you the chance to help our organization while realizing many important benefits for - [Get Your Gift Matched](https://lfcsmo.org/donate/get-your-gift-matched/) - Home 5 Donate 5 Get Your Gift MatchedGet Your Gift Matched Matching gift programs are a wonderful way to multiply the impact of your gift — at no additional cost to you. How it Works Ask your company’s human resource office, personnel department or community relations office if your company has a matching gift program. - [Memorial and Tribute Gifts](https://lfcsmo.org/donate/memorial-and-tribute-gifts/) - Home 5 Donate 5 Memorial and Tribute GiftsMemorial and Tribute Gifts You Make a Gift. We Send the Card. You can make a memorial or tribute gift in memory of a friend or loved one, in honor of an extraordinary person who has made a difference in your life or to commemorate a special occasion. - [Other Ways to Support LFCS](https://lfcsmo.org/donate/other-ways-to-support-lfcs/) - Home 5 Donate 5 Other Ways to Support LFCSOther Ways to Give Want to learn about all the ways in which you can support the mission of LFCS? Here are a few ideas that help build better tomorrows for Missouri children and families. Tax Credits Did you know that you can make your charitable dollars - [What We Do](https://lfcsmo.org/what-we-do/) - Home 5 What We DoWhat We Do Strengthening Families Across Missouri Over the past 30 years, LFCS has extended its physical presence from the St. Louis area across the state, expanding services into Cape Girardeau, Columbia, Springfield, Franklin County, Joplin, and Kansas City. Time and time again, LFCS has taken on new challenges and expanded - [Joplin Office](https://lfcsmo.org/locations/joplin-office/) - Home 5 Locations 5 Joplin OfficeJoplin Office LFCS began serving Joplin in 2011. We have since relocated to a larger office space, in order to better serve the children and families in our community. Services Provided in Joplin: NPregnancy Services NParenting Services NAdoption Services *all services are provided by appointment only. Location 801 East 15th - [Franklin County Office](https://lfcsmo.org/locations/franklin-county-office/) - Home 5 Locations 5 Franklin County OfficeFranklin County Office In 2010, LFCS began operating in Franklin County by providing parent education and pregnancy services to families in need out of local Lutheran Churches. Since that time, LFCS has grown to include several additional programs that address the needs of children and families within that community. - [Southeast Office](https://lfcsmo.org/locations/southeast-office/) - Home 5 Locations 5 Southeast OfficeSoutheast Office In 1973, LFCS opened an office in Southeast Missouri in response to an increasing demand for crisis pregnancy and adoption services in the region. Since then, our programs have helped produce sustainable change and life-changing results for the children and families of Southeast Missouri. Our office is located - [Mid-Missouri Office](https://lfcsmo.org/locations/mid-missouri-office/) - Home 5 Locations 5 Mid-Missouri OfficeMid-Missouri Office LFCS has been serving children and families in Mid-Missouri since 1995. All services are open to everyone regardless of race, faith, national origin, or gender. Services Provided in the Mid-Missouri Region NPregnancy Services, Maternal Mental Health NMental Health Counseling for children, youth, and families NParenting Services NAdoption Services - [St. Louis Office](https://lfcsmo.org/locations/st-louis-office/) - Home 5 Locations 5 St. Louis OfficeSt. Louis Office It all started with a promise. During the Civil War, Rev. Johann Buenger made a promise to a wounded Union solider to care for his 10-year-old son. From that promise, our agency was born and raised in St. Louis. Throughout our history, we have expanded our - [Newsroom](https://lfcsmo.org/newsroom/) - Explore the latest news, press releases, and media coverage from LFCS. Stay informed on our programs and impact in Missouri. - [Couples Therapy](https://lfcsmo.org/behavioral-health/couples-therapy/) - Home 5 Behavioral Health 5 Couples TherapyCouples Therapy “From the cradle to the grave, humans desire a certain someone who will look out for them, notice and value them, soothe their wounds, reassure them in life’s difficult places, and hold them in the dark.” – Susan M. Johnson Sometimes couples experience conflict that doesn’t subside, - [Mental Health First Aid](https://lfcsmo.org/behavioral-health/mental-health-first-aid/) - Join LFCS’s Mental Health First Aid training program and learn to support individuals in mental health distress across Missouri communities. - [School Counseling Sites](https://lfcsmo.org/behavioral-health/school-counseling-sites/) - Home 5 Behavioral Health 5 School Counseling SitesSchool Counseling Sites Select a District Affton School District Bayless School District Centralia School District City of St. Charles School District Clayton School District Hazelwood School District Hillsboro School District Jennings School District Lonedell XIV School District Mehlville School District Orchard Farm School District Parkway School District Parochial/Private - [Clinical Internship Program](https://lfcsmo.org/clinical-internship-program/) - Home 5 Clinical Internship ProgramClinical Internship Program The Clinical Internship program is a valued part of the Therapy Program at LFCS. Students help keep our professional discussions lively and productive, and they enable us to serve many people that we would not otherwise be able to help. Our interns learn how to do psychotherapy in - [School-Based Counseling Services](https://lfcsmo.org/behavioral-health/school-based-counseling-services/) - Supporting Missouri students through school-based counseling, LFCS helps address mental health issues and promotes emotional resilience. - [Our Commitment to Quality](https://lfcsmo.org/who-we-are/our-commitment-to-quality/) - Learn how LFCS ensures high-quality services, driven by compassion and integrity, to strengthen families and empower children across Missouri. - [Partners & Funders](https://lfcsmo.org/who-we-are/partners-funders/) - Explore the partners and funders who support LFCS in making Missouri’s children and families safer, stronger, and empowered for a better future. - [Counseling Sites](https://lfcsmo.org/who-we-are/counseling-sites/) - Home 5 Who We Are 5 Counseling SitesCounseling Sites Here is a list of our current locations for Outpatient Counseling services: LFCS St. Louis Office 9666 Olive Blvd., Suite 400, St. Louis, MO 63132 LFCS St. Charles Office 100 Piper Hill Dr., St. Peters, MO 63376 LFCS Franklin County Office 500 Clark Ave., Suite M, - [Staff Leadership](https://lfcsmo.org/who-we-are/staff-leadership/) - Meet the dedicated staff leadership at LFCS and how they guide our mission to support families and children across Missouri. - [Grants and Contracts](https://lfcsmo.org/who-we-are/grants-and-contracts/) - Find out about our funding sources, grants, and contracts that help LFCS support families and children across Missouri. - [Board Leadership](https://lfcsmo.org/who-we-are/board-leadership/) - Meet the dedicated leadership behind LFCS, guiding Missouri's efforts to strengthen families and children through strategic oversight and community impact. - [Our History](https://lfcsmo.org/who-we-are/our-history/) - Explore about the 155-year history of Lutheran Family and Children’s Services, from its founding after the Civil War to its impact today in Missouri. - [Caring Congregations](https://lfcsmo.org/who-we-are/caring-congregations/) - Through the Caring Congregations program, LFCS enables churches to serve and support Missouri families. - [Who We Are](https://lfcsmo.org/who-we-are/) - Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Missouri empowers families through support and service, fostering brighter futures since 1868. - [Donate](https://lfcsmo.org/donate/) - Your gift supports vital programs like adoption, foster care, and parenting education, empowering children and families to overcome challenges and build a better future. - [Meet Our Counselors](https://lfcsmo.org/behavioral-health/our-counselors/) - Home 5 Behavioral Health 5 Meet Our CounselorsMeet our Counselors Welcome to our outpatient counseling team page! Here, you can explore the profiles of our dedicated counselors, each committed to supporting you on your mental health journey. We provide support for children and families across Missouri address and manage issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, - [Contact Us](https://lfcsmo.org/contact-us/) - Get in touch with LFCS for Adoption, Foster Care, Pregnancy Services, and more. Call 866-326-LFCS or email help@lfcs.org. We’re here to support Missouri families. - [Hilltop](https://lfcsmo.org/hilltop/) - The Hilltop program offers dedicated support and services for families in Missouri, helping them build a better tomorrow. Learn more today. - [Foster Care Services](https://lfcsmo.org/foster-care-services/) - Learn how you can make a difference as a foster parent with LFCS’s services across Missouri. Help children in need build brighter futures. - [Adoption Services](https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-services/) - LFCS connects children in need with loving families through its adoption services across Missouri. - [Pregnancy Services](https://lfcsmo.org/pregnancy-services/) - Unsure about your pregnancy options? LFCS offers expert guidance and support for you and your family during this important time. - [Parenting Services](https://lfcsmo.org/parenting-services/) - Find the support you need with LFCS’s parenting services. Offering resources, counseling, and guidance for parents throughout Missouri. - [Behavioral Health](https://lfcsmo.org/behavioral-health/) - Access LFCS's behavioral health services in Missouri to support individuals and families facing emotional and mental health challenges. - [Privacy Policy](https://lfcsmo.org/privacy-policy/) - Privacy Policy LFCS values its visitors’ privacy. This privacy policy summarizes what information we might collect from a registered user or other visitor, and what we will and will not do with it. This privacy notice discloses the privacy practices for lfcsmo.org. This privacy notice applies solely to information collected by this website. If you - [Events](https://lfcsmo.org/who-we-are/events/) - Stay updated on upcoming events and initiatives by LFCS to support families across Missouri and strengthen communities. ## Events - [December Post-Adoption Support Group](https://lfcsmo.org/event/december-post-adoption-support-group/) - This virtual meeting is support group for birth mothers who made an adoption plan. To join or for more information, please contact Evelyn. Email Call or Text: 573-708-6355 - [2024 LFCS Dinner and Auction](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2024-lfcs-dinner-and-auction-3/) - Save the Date! The 2024 Annual LFCS Dinner & Auction will be held at 5:00 p.m. on Saturday, September 28, 2024 at the Four Seasons, located at 999 N. 2nd Street, St. Louis, MO 63102. Please plan to join us on the red carpet for a star-studded celebration in Old Hollywood style to benefit children - [LFCS Princess Meet and Greet Diaper Drive- Springfield](https://lfcsmo.org/event/lfcs-princess-meet-and-greet-diaper-drive-springfield/) - Join us for snacks and crafts, and meet your favorite princesses! No RSVP required. This is a free event! If you are able, please consider bringing a donation of any size baby diapers, wipes, formula, or other baby care productions (shampoo, creams, etc.). Your gifts will benefit the mothers of Southwest Missouri who need a - [LFCS Adoptive Family Picnic](https://lfcsmo.org/event/lfcs-adoptive-family-picnic/) - Join LFCS for a day in nature! Bring your own picnic lunch and meet us at noon on September 14, 2024 at Shelter #3 at the Cape County North Park. You will have the opportunity to visit with other adoptive families and participate in a short hike (or drive) to the Cape Conservation Nature Center, - [THE NURTURING FAMILY NETWORK PARENT CAFÉ](https://lfcsmo.org/event/the-nurturing-family-network-parent-cafe-2/) - Join us at the St. Louis LFCS office on Friday, September 20, 2024 from 10:00am to 12:00pm for the Nurturing Family Network Parenting Café! At LFCS, we know that parenting is a tough job. This series promotes resilience, relationships, knowledge, and communication, to provide support for parents and guardians and help them overcome challenges and - [The Nurturing Family Network Parent Café](https://lfcsmo.org/event/the-nurturing-family-network-parent-cafe/) - Join us at the St. Louis LFCS office on Friday, August 16, 2024 from 10:00am to 12:00pm for the Nurturing Family Network Parenting Café! At LFCS, we know that parenting is a tough job. This series promotes resilience, relationships, knowledge, and communication, to provide support for parents and guardians and help them overcome challenges and - [Mental Health: Let's Taco Bout It!](https://lfcsmo.org/event/mental-health-lets-taco-bout-it/) - Celebrate Mental Health Awareness Month with us in Cape Girardeau! Join us at the Cape Girardeau Public Library on Friday, May 17, 2024 from 12-1pm, when we will be offering a short presentation about Mental Health, along with a free taco lunch, sponsored by Seis Express. No reservations are required! For questions, contact Christy O'Neal - [LFCS Kansas City Office Open House](https://lfcsmo.org/event/lfcs-kansas-city-office-open-house/) - Please note the new date for our Open House Event! Join us on Tuesday, October 8th from 3-6pm as we celebrate our brand new office in Kansas City! We will be offering tours of the new space, as well as information about our services. Light refreshments will be served. No RSVP required! - [Mid-Missouri Office's 30th Anniversary Celebration](https://lfcsmo.org/event/mid-missouri-offices-30-anniversary-celebration/) - Kick off the Mizzou- Alabama weekend with purpose! LFCS's Mid-Missouri office is celebrating 30 years of service in Columbia, and we invite you to join us for a special tailgate-themed celebration featuring food, drinks, and family fun! This milestone event will take place on Friday, October 10th, from 3 p.m. to 7 p.m. in - [2025 LFCS Dinner and Auction- An Evening Under the Sea](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2025-lfcs-dinner-and-auction-2/) - Registration is now open for the 2025 LFCS Dinner and Auction! Event Location: Four Seasons, located at 999 N. 2nd Street, St. Louis, MO 63102 This year's celebration will feature dinner and open bar, live and silent auctions, and dancing and live music by the Charles Glenn Band! The proceeds will provide support to critical - ["Stars, Stripes, and Relaxing Nights" Labor Day Raffle](https://lfcsmo.org/event/stars-stripes-and-relaxing-nights-labor-day-raffle/) - Don't miss your chance to win this fabulous package filled with everything you will need to celebrate with family this Labor Day! The items are valued at over $1300, and include: Endless Summer “Americana” LP Gas Fire Pit (40 x28 x 25) (2) Sarasota Breeze Folding Adirondack Chairs – Acacia Wood w/White Finish – includes - [LFCS Night with the St. Louis Blues!](https://lfcsmo.org/event/lfcs-night-with-the-st-louis-blues/) - Don't miss your chance to support LFCS and cheer the Blues during the homestretch of their season! Tickets are selling fast, so don’t wait! Secure your spot now for a night of exciting hockey and meaningful impact. Who: The St. Louis Blues vs The Anaheim Ducks When: Sunday, March 16th, 2025 - Puck drops at 5:00pm Where: Enterprise - [LFCS Princess Meet and Greet Diaper Drive- Joplin](https://lfcsmo.org/event/lfcs-princess-meet-and-greet-diaper-drive-joplin/) - Join us for snacks and crafts, and meet your favorite princesses! No RSVP required. This is a free event! If you are able, please consider bringing a donation of any size baby diapers, wipes, formula, or other baby care productions (shampoo, creams, etc.). Your gifts will benefit the mothers of Southwest Missouri who need a - [2023 LFCS Dinner & Auction](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2023-lfcs-dinner-auction/) - The 40th Annual LFCS Dinner & Auction will be held at 5:00 p.m. on Saturday, October 7, 2023 at the Ritz-Carlton, located at 100 Carondelet Plaza, St. Louis, MO 63105. This event provides support to critical services for children and families across the state, including mental health counseling, pregnancy services, parenting education, adoption, and more. - [2022 LFCS Dinner & Auction](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2022-lfcs-dinner-auction/) - SAVE THE DATE! Join us for a beautiful evening of unity & celebration to benefit children & families in need. The 39th Annual LFCS Dinner & Auction will be held at 5:00 p.m. on Saturday, October 1, 2022 at the Four Seasons- St. Louis, located at 999 N. Second St., St. Louis, MO 63102. This - [2022 "Win Big for Little Lives" Raffle](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2022-win-big-for-little-lives-can-am-defender-raffle/) - Tickets may also be purchased in person at Ochs Powersports in Cape or Perryville, at Ultimate Flooring in Cape, at IKE Enterprises at the Old Federal Building in Cape, or at the LFCS office in Cape. Questions? Contact Christy O'Neal at christy.oneal@lfcs.org or 573-380-5277. *Please note that the winner of the 2022 Can-Am Defender will be - [2022 Golf Tournament](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2022-golf-tournament/) - Mark your calendars for the 20th Annual LFCS Golf Tournament! When: Friday, May 20, 2022 10:00 am: Registration Begins 11:00 am: Lunch and Program 11:45 am: Rules of Play 12:00 pm: Shotgun Start 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm: Dinner Available on Course 5:00 pm: End of Play Where: Forest Park Golf Course, 6141 Lagoon Drive, - [2021 Holiday Home Tour](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2021-holiday-home-tour/) - Purchase Tickets Now - [2021 Mid-MO LFCS Virtual Auction](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2021-mid-mo-lfcs-virtual-auction/) - https://youtu.be/Tg9MZ7Qb41QThank you for your interest in the Lutheran Family and Children’s Services Mid-Missouri Virtual Auction! This important event will provide support for critical services to children and families, including mental health counseling, crisis pregnancy counseling, parenting education, adoption, and more. The Virtual Auction will be held online from 12:00 pm Friday, October 22, 2021 through - [2021 St. Louis LFCS Virtual Auction- Day Three](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2021-lfcs-virtual-auction-day-two/) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uCz05TfrBdc The Lutheran Family and Children’s Services Annual Auction is our largest fundraiser of the year, and provides support for critical services to children and families across the state, including mental health counseling, crisis pregnancy counseling, parenting education, adoption, and more. We hope you will join us in supporting this important cause, and help impact the - [2021 St. Louis LFCS Virtual Auction](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2021auction/) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uCz05TfrBdcThe Lutheran Family and Children’s Services Annual Auction is our largest fundraiser of the year, and provides support for critical services to children and families across the state, including mental health counseling, crisis pregnancy counseling, parenting education, adoption, and more. We hope you will join us in supporting this important cause, and help impact the lives - [2021 LFCS Golf Tournament](https://lfcsmo.org/event/golf/) - With special thanks to our Event Chairs, Lauren and Matt Brickler! Mark your calendars for the LFCS Golf Tournament on Friday, May 21, 2021 at beautiful Forest Park Golf Course in St. Louis! When: Friday, May 21, 2021 11:00 am: Registration Begins 11:45 am: Welcome at the Carts, Rules of Play, Boxed Lunches on Carts - [2020 Holiday Home Tour](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2020-holiday-home-tour/) - To safely continue this time-honored tradition, the 2020 Holiday Home Tour will be hosted virtually for all to enjoy from the comforts of home. $25 TICKETS AVAILABLE TODAY! Purchase your tickets now by clicking here or text HOLIDAY to 345345. You will receive a private access code to watch the guided tour from your favorite - [2020 Princesses and Me Campaign](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2020-princesses-and-me/) - For most, childhood is a time of innocence, curiosity, and wonder. Sadly, for over 13,000 Missouri kids, childhood is cut short as they struggle with the harsh reality of abuse and neglect. They are afraid and vulnerable. Lutheran Family and Children's Services offers support to these children and the foster families who welcome them into - [2020 Online Auction & Fundraiser - Final Day](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2020-online-auction-fundraiser-final-day/) - Bidding closes at 8:00 p.m (CST) on September 20, 2020 BID NOW GIVE NOW Thank you for supporting kids in need! - [COVID Relief Effort](https://lfcsmo.org/event/covid-relief-effort/) - Help LFCS continue to serve Missouri children in the safest and best ways possible by supporting our COVID Relief Fund. The total impact from the current pandemic crisis is still yet to be determined. During these uncertain times, LFCS is preparing for the months ahead. As the circumstances continue to develop, we are anticipating an - [Giving Tuesday Now](https://lfcsmo.org/event/giving-tuesday-now/) - Join LFCS for #GivingTuesdayNow - a worldwide day of giving to bring us all together! - [Go Blue Day 2020](https://lfcsmo.org/event/go-blue-day-2020/) - All kids deserve great childhoods. You can help make great childhoods happen. April is Child Abuse Prevention Month and April 3 is Go Blue Day! Help draw awareness to the dangers of child abuse and steps that can be taken to prevent it in our community by wearing blue on April 3, 2020. Be sure - [Derby Day Celebration](https://lfcsmo.org/event/derby-day-celebration/) - DUE TO COVID-19, THIS EVENT HAS BEEN CANCELLED Here at Lutheran Family and Children’s Services, our primary goal is to ensure the safety and security of all of our clients and supporters. Due to ongoing concerns about COVID-19, The May 2nd LFCS Derby Day Celebration at Topgolf has been cancelled. As you know, the goal - [Cape Open House](https://lfcsmo.org/event/cape-open-house/) - [2019 Tigers on the Prowl](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2019-tigers-on-the-prowl/) - 6th Annual Tigers on the Prowl to benefit Lutheran Family & Children’s Services – Mid-Missouri Office Tuesday, October 1, 2019 5:30 p.m - 9:00 p.m. Holiday Inn Executive Center Individual ticket: $100.00 OR Table of 10: $900 For ticket information please contact: 573-815-9955 tigersontheprowl.org - [2019 Princesses and Me Tea](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2019-princesses-and-me-tea/) - The 6th Annual Princesses & Me Tea November 16, 2019 Oasis Convention Center in Springfield, MO Tickets Available Now Royal Tables can be purchased by phone only at 417-862-1972) beginning at 9:00 a.m. on July 16th. LFCS Princesses & Me Tea tickets start at only $25 – CHILD or ADULT! For only $25 your princess will - [Hats, Horses & Hope 2019](https://lfcsmo.org/event/hats-horses-hope-2019/) - Friday, May 3 Doors open at 5:00 p.m. Jackson Civic Center 381 W. Deerwood Drive Make your reservation now! - [2018 Light Up the Night](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2018-light-up-the-night/) - 2018 Light Up the Night Hope Children's Home 709 E Main St Jackson, MO 63755 November 11, 2018 Program starts at 6:15 p.m - [2019 LFCS Dinner Auction](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2019-lfcs-dinner-auction/) - Get your tickets! Join us under the big top! Saturday, September 21, 2019 Four Seasons St. Louis 999 N Second Street St. Louis, MO 63102 Doors open at 5:00 p.m. $200 per person or $2,000 per table of 10 Black tie preferred. Want to win $10,000? Purchase a Prize Ticket for your chance! Sponsor the Event - [2019 Hope Fore Families Golf Tournament](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2019-hope-fore-families-golf-tournament/) - Friday, May 17, 2019 Missouri Bluffs Golf Course 18 Research Park Cir St. Charles, MO 63304 Download the 2019 Hope Fore Families Golf Registration Form Register Online Now - [2018 Holiday Home Tour](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2018-holiday-home-tour/) - We are very excited to be partnering with the Safe House for Women for our 31st Annual Holiday Home Tour! The tour will be self-guided through six area homes, beautifully decorated for the holidays. Get a sneak peek at the homes! Click here to order your tickets! - [Mid-Missouri Open House](https://lfcsmo.org/event/mid-missouri-open-house/) - Please join us to help celebrate 150 years of service in Missouri! September 6, 2018 4:30 - 6:30 p.m. 307 Locust Street Columbia, MO Appetizers and beverages will be provided. RSVP to Michele at 573-815-9955 LFCS Open House Celebration begins at 4:30 p.m. followed by the Chamber Ambassador ribbon cutting ceremony at 5:00 p.m. We will be dedicating our Adoption - [Promise Ball 2018](https://lfcsmo.org/event/promise-ball-2018/) - Promise Ball Evening Timeline 5:00 p.m. Doors Open - Enjoy cocktails and appetizers while walking through the 150-year history of LFCS. 6:30 p.m. Welcome, Recognition of Chairs, and Prayer 6:50 p.m. Children’s Fund 7:00 p.m. Dinner Served 7:55 p.m. Toast 8:00 p.m. The Charles Glenn Group Begins Performance 9:45 p.m. Prize Ticket Drawing 10:00 - [2018 LFCS Princesses & Me Tea](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2018-princesses-tea/) - Purchase Tickets Now - [Tigers on the Prowl](https://lfcsmo.org/event/tigers-on-the-prowl/) - October 2, 2018 5:30-9:00 p.m. Dinner and Live Auction Holiday Inn Executive Center Columbia, MO For tickets please call 573-815-9955 or email Michele Towns Individual ticket: $100 Table of 10: $900 $65.00 per every ticket sold will benefit LFCS - [Give STL Day 2018](https://lfcsmo.org/event/give-stl-day-2018/) - LFCS will once again be participating in Give STL Day! Never heard of Give STL Day? It's a 24-hour, online giving event organized to grow philanthropy in the St. Louis metropolitan area. Mark your calendar to show your support for children and families in Missouri! Learn more about Give STL Day 2018 - [The Lutheran Prayer Breakfast](https://lfcsmo.org/event/lutheran-prayer-breakfast/) - SPEAKER: THE REV. DR. JOHN A. NUNES The Rev. John Arthur Nunes, Ph.D., began in 2016 as the ninth president of Concordia College New York, Bronxville, N.Y., an institution of The Lutheran Church—Missouri Synod, which was founded in 1881. Nunes came to the Bronxville, N.Y., campus from Valparaiso University in Valparaiso, Ind., where he held - [#GivingTuesday](https://lfcsmo.org/event/givingtuesday/) - #GivingTuesday is a global day of giving fueled by the power of social media and collaboration. Celebrated on the Tuesday following Thanksgiving and the widely recognized shopping events Black Friday and Cyber Monday, #GivingTuesday kicks off the charitable season. You can participate in #GivingTuesday by supporting LFCS with a donation of time, resources or talent. Find out more at - [2018 Kentucky Derby Party](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2018-ky-derby-party/) - Hats, Horses and Hope: The Annual LFCS Kentucky Derby Party Friday, May 4 at the Jackson Civic Center Table Reservations NOW AVAILABLE!!! General reservations will begin April 2nd More details coming soon! For the latest updates, like and follow our Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/LFCSKentuckyDerby/ - [2018 Hope Fore Families Golf Tournament](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2018-golf-tournament/) - ONLINE REGISTRATION NOW AVAILABLE The Missouri Bluffs Golf Club 18 Research Park Circle Saint Charles, MO 63304 10:00 AM: Registration 11:00 AM: Lunch & Program Noon: Tee Off 5:00 PM: Outdoor BBQ Dinner and Awards $275/Player OR $1,100/Team For more information about the 2018 Hope Fore Families Golf Tournament, please contact Shannon. Phone: 314-785-7327 - [2017 Holiday Home Tour](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2017-holiday-home-tour/) - Make your holiday season even more special by joining LFCS for the 30th Annual Holiday Home Tour! Tickets go on sale the first week of November. Contact Michelle at 573-334-5866 for more details or to be a 2017 Holiday Home Tour Sponsor. - [2017 Princesses & Me Tea](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2017-princesses-tea/) - Tickets Now Available - [Give STL Day](https://lfcsmo.org/event/give-stl-day-2017/) - What if you only had one day to make a difference To choose to help others? To extend your generosity for a greater purpose? That day is here! Today you have a chance to be a part of making St. Louis better. It's Give STL Day so spread the word. You can make a huge impact! - [Go Blue Day 2017](https://lfcsmo.org/event/go-blue-day2017/) - Go Blue Day is Friday, April 7! Wear blue on April 7 to promote the safety and well-being of Missouri's kids and the importance of child abuse prevention. - [Derby de Mayo](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2017-kentucky-derby-party/) - Don't miss the 2017 LFCS Kentucky Derby Party "Derby de Mayo" Table pre-sale opens March 1, 2017. Reserve your table now! General tickets go on sale March 31, 2017. Grab some friends and dress up and get down for LFCS! Join us on Friday, May 5th for Derby de Mayo at the Jackson Civic Center! - [35th Annual Helping Hands Auction](https://lfcsmo.org/event/35th-annual-helping-hands-auction/) - Now accepting reservations You are cordially invited to attend the 35th Annual LFCS Helping Hands Dinner & Auction Saturday, August 19, 2017 at 5:00 PM The Four Seasons Saint Louis 999 North Second Street $150 per person - Tickets will be held at the door Black tie preferred, 1920's attire encouraged The proceeds - [2017 Hope Fore Families Golf Tournament](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2017-hope-fore-families-golf-tournament-2/) - Join us on Monday, May 15, 2017 for the 16th Annual Hope fore Families Golf Tournament to benefit Lutheran Family and Children's Services Foundation. Missouri Bluffs Golf Club 18 Research Park Circle Saint Charles, MO 63304 Shotgun start at 12:00 pm Register now! - [Light up the Night](https://lfcsmo.org/event/light-up-the-night/) - Commemorate Orphan Sunday with LFCS! Join us for a Candlelight Vigil Sunday, November 12 Mercy Hill Church 3757 MO-25 Jackson, MO - [St. Louis Partners Foster Care Recruitment](https://lfcsmo.org/event/st-louis-partners-foster-care-recruitment/) - We need foster parents! St. Louis Partner’s wants more foster parents just like YOU. Come learn how you can help us with the recruitment process. We all know that foster parents are our BEST recruiters, so we NEED your help. October 20, 2016 6:00 to 7:00 pm Bringing Families Together 7151 North Lindbergh Blvd. Hazelwood, - [#GivingTuesday 2016](https://lfcsmo.org/event/givingtuesday-2016/) - Mark Your Calendar! #GivingTuesday is a global day of giving and one of the best ways to get involved in our own community. After the surge of shopping events on Black Friday and Cyber Monday have ended, get charitable on #GivingTuesday! Show us how you are giving and why giving is important to you! Download this flyer and - [LFCS Bookfair at Barnes & Noble](https://lfcsmo.org/event/lfcs-bookfair-barnes-noble/) - Complete your holiday shopping and help your favorite cause at the same time! On November 17, Barnes & Noble in Columbia, MO is hosting a Bookfair and will donate a portion of all sales to LFCS. Using the LFCS Day flyer at check out will guarantee as much as 10% of your purchase can benefit children and - [2016 Lutheran Prayer Breakfast](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2016-lutheran-prayer-breakfast/) - Celebrating fellowship. Reaffirming faith. The Lutheran Prayer Breakfast Welcomes Rev. Walt Wangerin, Jr., nationally acclaimed speaker and award-winning author Wednesday, October 12 7:00 a.m. Registration 7:30 a.m. Breakfast & Program Orlando Events & Conference Center 2050 Dorsett Village Plaza Maryland Heights, MO 63043 (at the corner of Dorsett & McKelvey – just west - [2016 Holiday Home Tour](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2016-holiday-home-tour/) - The 29th Annual LFCS Holiday Home Tour presented by Plaza Tire Service and Baristas Coffee Bar is Saturday, December 3, 2016. PLUS, ADDED BONUS This year, your Holiday Home Tour ticket book is a full-size 2017 LFCS calendar! VOLUNTEERS NEEDED Get your ticket for HALF price when you volunteer as a Home Host or Hostess! - [2016 Princesses & Me Tea](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2016-princesses-me-tea/) - THE 2016 PRINCESSES & ME TEA IS SOLD OUT! THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT! The PRINCESSES ARE COMING! Save the Date for Saturday, October 22nd, 10am. Queens, Fairy Godmothers, and everyone in the kingdom is invited to bring their little princes and princesses in their favorite costume to the fairytale tea to meet 11 of her - [2016 Helping Hands Dinner & Auction](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2016-helping-hands-dinner-auction/) - Saturday, August 20, 2016 5 p.m. - 11 p.m. The Ritz-Carlton St. Louis 100 Carondelet Plaza $150 per Guest / $1500 Per Table Reservations Required Black Tie Preferred Purchase Auction Tickets Donate to the Children's Fund - [Hope & Healing - A Group for Birth Mothers](https://lfcsmo.org/event/birth-mother-group/) - Join us and share your story... - [2016 Kentucky Derby Party](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2016-kentucky-derby-party/) - Ladies & Gentlemen- Please make plans to join us for the LFCS Kentucky Derby Party featuring a full evening of entertainment by Tony B's Dueling Pianos! Sing and dance the night away with your friends, place bets on your favorite horse in the LFCS Run for the Roses Horse Race, and enjoy special Derby style - [2015 Holiday Home Tour ~ Southeast](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2015-holiday-home-tour/) - [Faith in Action - Dueling Pianos - Shake, Rattle & Roll](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2656/) - CLICK HERE for Reservations to Faith in Action - Dueling Pianos! - [May 5 is giveSTLday!](https://lfcsmo.org/event/may-5-is-givestlday/) - CLICK HERE on May 5 to make your donation to LFCS as part of giveSTLday! - [Princesses & Me Tea](https://lfcsmo.org/event/princesses-me-tea/) - Tickets have SOLD OUT for this event! If you were unable to get tickets this year, plan to join us in 2016. If you purchased tickets for this year's event, we'll see you October 10! But... We're looking for Knights in Shining Armor! Saturday, October 10th ~ 10 a.m. The Ramada Plaza Hotel & Oasis - [Kentucky Derby Party - Boas & Bling - Southeast Office](https://lfcsmo.org/event/kentucky-derby-party-boas-bling-southeast-office/) - Ladies & Gentlemen: Place Your Bets & Save the Date April 30th from 5 - 9 p.m. Location: The Plaza by Ray's Tickets: Individual - $35 Reserved Tables of 8 - $250 VIP Tables on Millionaires Row (Lots of Extras!) - $390 Ticket price includes special derby-style food, beer, wine & soft drinks all night Tons - [2014 Holiday Home Tour ~ Southeast](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2014-holiday-home-tour/) - Don't miss the 27th Annual LFCS Holiday Home Tour in Cape Girardeau Saturday, December 6, 2014 9 a.m. ~ 4 p.m. Tour Six Beautifully Decorated Homes! Tickets On Sale NOW at the following locations: Bank of Missouri (Cape, Jackson, Scott City, Perryville and Marble Hill) Sunny Hill Gardens and Florist Patrick Furniture Southeast Hospital Gift Shop - [Growing Hope Festival - Mid-Missouri](https://lfcsmo.org/event/growing-hope-festival-mid-missouri/) - Join us for an all-star cast and an all-around-great-night on November 6 for our Growing Hope Festival! For more information and sponsorship opportunities contact Click Here for downloadable flyer - [5th Annual Ladies Night Out](https://lfcsmo.org/event/5th-annual-ladies-night/) - Join us for our 5th Annual Ladies Night Out! Thursday, September 18, 2014 6 - 9 p.m. The Home of Chris Homan 2100 S. Warson Road St. Louis, Missouri 63124 $40 per person Click here to pay online Payment can also be mailed to: Virginia/LFCS 9666 Olive Boulevard, Suite 400 St. Louis, MO 63132 Please - [Faith In Action ~ Southeast](https://lfcsmo.org/event/faith-action-southeast-region-save-date/) - [Princesses & Me Tea ~ Southwest](https://lfcsmo.org/event/princesses-tea/) - To sponsor a foster child CLICK HERE! CLICK HERE to purchase tickets! Princess Makeovers are available by appointment. Please call Jaime at 800-474-1967 to schedule yours! - [32nd Annual Helping Hands Auction ~ St. Louis](https://lfcsmo.org/event/32nd-annual-helping-hands-auction/) - Join Us! 32nd Annual Helping Hands Auction Saturday, August 23, 2014 5:00 p.m. Four Seasons Hotel Jeff & Laura Hollingsworth, 2014 Auction Chairs We are sorry, but tickets are no longer available online to attend this event. Alice: This is impossible! The Mad Hatter: Only if you believe it is. Please email Virginia or call 314/754-2785 for all things - [March Post-Adoption Support Group Meeting](https://lfcsmo.org/event/march-post-adoption-support-group-meeting/) - This meeting is support group for birth mothers who made an adoption plan. We will be painting pottery at locations to be determined. To join or for more information, please contact Evelyn. Email Call or Text: 573-708-6355 - [Birth Mothers' Brunch](https://lfcsmo.org/event/birth-mothers-brunch/) - This gathering is a Mother's Day celebration for birth mothers who made an adoption plan. To join or for more information, please contact Evelyn. Email Call or Text: 573-708-6355 - [November Post-Adoption Support Group](https://lfcsmo.org/event/november-post-adoption-support-group/) - This virtual meeting is support group for birth mothers who made an adoption plan. To join or for more information, please contact Evelyn. Email Call or Text: 573-708-6355 - [October Post-Adoption Support Group](https://lfcsmo.org/event/october-post-adoption-support-group/) - This virtual meeting is support group for birth mothers who made an adoption plan. To join or for more information, please contact Evelyn. Email Call or Text: 573-708-6355 - [September Post-Adoption Support Group](https://lfcsmo.org/event/september-post-adoption-support-group/) - This virtual meeting is support group for birth mothers who made an adoption plan. To join or for more information, please contact Evelyn. Email Call or Text: 573-708-6355 - [August Post-Adoption Support Group](https://lfcsmo.org/event/august-post-adoption-support-group/) - This virtual meeting is support group for birth mothers who made an adoption plan. To join or for more information, please contact Evelyn. Email Call or Text: 573-708-6355 - [July Post-Adoption Support Group](https://lfcsmo.org/event/july-post-adoption-support-group/) - This virtual meeting is support group for birth mothers who made an adoption plan. To join or for more information, please contact Evelyn. Email Call or Text: 573-708-6355 - [June Post-Adoption Support Group Meeting](https://lfcsmo.org/event/june-post-adoption-support-group-meeting/) - This virtual meeting is support group for birth mothers who made an adoption plan. To join or for more information, please contact Evelyn. Email Call or Text: 573-708-6355 - [April Post-Adoption Support Group Meeting](https://lfcsmo.org/event/april-post-adoption-support-group-meeting/) - This virtual meeting is support group for birth mothers who made an adoption plan. To join or for more information, please contact Evelyn. Email Call or Text: 573-708-6355 - [2020 Online Auction & Fundraiser - Day 2](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2020-online-auction-fundraiser-day-2/) - https://youtu.be/3IDcY4qiaBYThank you for your interest in the LFCS Home Is Where the Heart Is Online Auction! This unique event allows you to support LFCS from the safety of your home, and ultimately to help ensure that kids in need throughout Missouri also have a safe, loving place to call home. As a result of the pandemic, LFCS - [2020 Online Auction & Fundraiser - Kickoff](https://lfcsmo.org/event/auction/) - Bidding Ends: Days HR MIN SEC Bidding for the 2020 Online Auction is now ended! Thank you so much for your support of LFCS! A Message From Our LFCS Family: https://youtu.be/2pUYVGgYkXA REGISTER TO BID VIEW CATALOG INSTRUCTIONS Thank you for your interest in the LFCS Home Is Where the Heart Is Online Auction, which will take place Friday, - [Mental Health Awareness Presentation](https://lfcsmo.org/event/mental-health-awareness-presentation-3/) - Healthy Relationships Join LFCS at Glendale Lutheran Church for this 6-week presentation series on Mental Health Awareness. LFCS will provide three presentations that aim to promote awareness for mental health issues impacting our community. Pastor Jonas will then lead a discussions the week after each presentation which will focus on how we can understand these topics - [Mental Health Awareness Presentation](https://lfcsmo.org/event/mental-health-awareness-presentation-2/) - Anxiety and Depression Join LFCS at Glendale Lutheran Church for this 6-week presentation series on Mental Health Awareness. LFCS will provide three presentations that aim to promote awareness for mental health issues impacting our community. Pastor Jonas will then lead a discussions the week after each presentation which will focus on how we can understand these - [Mental Health Awareness Presentation](https://lfcsmo.org/event/mental-health-awareness-presentation/) - Childhood Trauma Join LFCS at Glendale Lutheran Church for this 6-week presentation series on Mental Health Awareness. LFCS will provide three presentations that aim to promote awareness for mental health issues impacting our community. Pastor Jonas will then lead a discussions the week after each presentation which will focus on how we can understand these topics - [SEMO Adoption Informational Meeting](https://lfcsmo.org/event/11-28-semo-adoption-meeting/) - Wednesday, November 28 at 5:30 p.m. Lutheran Family and Children’s Services 3178 Blattner Drive Cape Girardeau MO Join us for an informational meeting to learn about the various ways to grow your family through adoption! Contact Evelyn at 573-334-5866 or EvelynB@lfcs.org to RSVP. Download the Meeting Flyer - [Offices Closed](https://lfcsmo.org/event/offices-closed/) - In observance of Good Friday, all LFCS offices are closed Friday, March 30, 2018. - [Alzheimer's Caregiver HELP Class](https://lfcsmo.org/event/alzheimers-caregiver-help-class/) - HELP: Here to Explore options, Link to resources, Provide information The Alzheimer's Caregiver HELP Class will offer information and resources to help individuals who are providing care to someone with Alzheimer’s disease or another related illness. Starting Wednesday, January 24, 2018 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm LFCS Southeast Office 3178 Blattner Drive Cape Girardeau, MO - [Dark Side of the Full Moon](https://lfcsmo.org/event/dark-side-of-the-full-moon-pm/) - Join LFCS for a free viewing of the documentary Dark Side of the Full Moon. April 25, 2017 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Woodcrest Chapel Pathway Entrance 2201 West Nifong Blvd, Columbia MO A special Q&A panel discussion led by LFCS Maternal Mental Health program staff will follow. Snacks will be provided. - [Dark Side of the Full Moon](https://lfcsmo.org/event/dark-side-full-moon-am/) - Join LFCS for a free viewing of the documentary Dark Side of the Full Moon. April 25, 2017 11:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. Acuff Auditorium University of Missouri School of Medicine One Hospital Drive Parking in the back of the hospital. A special Q&A panel discussion led by LFCS Maternal Mental Health program staff will - [POSTPONED - Southwest MO Planned Giving Lunch](https://lfcsmo.org/event/southwest-mo-planned-giving-lunch/) - THANK YOU FOR YOUR INTEREST! THIS EVENT HAS BEEN POSTPONED UNTIL LATER IN 2017. CHECK BACK SOON FOR THE NEW DATE/TIME. Whether you’re 30, 50 or 70-years-old, you have your eyes on the horizon. But today’s view might look a bit different than it did just a few years ago. Graduations, marriage, parenthood, divorce and - [Perryville MARC](https://lfcsmo.org/event/perryville-marc/) - Perryville Disaster Relief MARC A Multi-Agency Resource Center is a central location for local and state agencies as well as human service organizations to answer your questions and provide information and disaster-related assistance. Saturday, March 4 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Perry Park Center 800 City Park Lane Perryville, MO 63775 This event is for - [2017 Empowered to Connect](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2017-empowered-connect/) - Join Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Mid-Missouri & HeartSpace Clinic in partnership with the Columbia Foster & Adoption Project, for Empowered to Connect, an insightful training for foster parents, adoptive parents, counselors, teachers, social workers, therapists, direct care providers, Children’s Division staff, daycare providers, pediatricians, CASA, and more. Together we will learn about Trust-Based Relational Intervention - [April Hope & Healing Meeting](https://lfcsmo.org/event/april-hope-healing-meeting/) - Hope & Healing – A Group for Birth Mothers Making an adoption plan can be accompanied by many intense feelings and emotions. Working through these with others who have been through something similar can be very helpful and healing. This group is for women who have chosen adoption, either recently or in the past, to - [Hope & Healing March Meeting`](https://lfcsmo.org/event/hope-healing-march-meeting/) - Hope & Healing – A Group for Birth Mothers Making an adoption plan can be accompanied by many intense feelings and emotions. Working through these with others who have been through something similar can be very helpful and healing. This group is for women who have chosen adoption, either recently or in the past, to - [Hope & Healing February Meeting](https://lfcsmo.org/event/hope-healing-february-meeting/) - Hope & Healing – A Group for Birth Mothers Making an adoption plan can be accompanied by many intense feelings and emotions. Working through these with others who have been through something similar can be very helpful and healing. This group is for women who have chosen adoption, either recently or in the past, to - [Hope & Healing January Meeting](https://lfcsmo.org/event/hope-healing-january-meeting/) - Hope & Healing - A Group for Birth Mothers Making an adoption plan can be accompanied by many intense feelings and emotions. Working through these with others who have been through something similar can be very helpful and healing. This group is for women who have chosen adoption, either recently or in the past, to - [Hope & Healing November Meeting](https://lfcsmo.org/event/hope-healing-november-meeting/) - Hope & Healing - A Group for Birth Mothers Making an adoption plan can be accompanied by many intense feelings and emotions. Working through these with others who have been through something similar can be very helpful and healing. This group is for women who have chosen adoption, either recently or in the past, to - [Fall 2016 Estate Planning Seminar](https://lfcsmo.org/event/10-2016-pgseminar/) - Reducing estate taxes, avoiding probate, and providing for heirs will be among the topics covered. Tuesday, October 25, 2016 5:30 pm – 8:00 pm Meramec Bluffs Log Cabin 198 Ameren Way Ballwin, MO 63021 Join us as we welcome Kirk Mueller, Senior Gift Planning Counselor for LCMS Foundation. Kirk will share valuable tips on how to - [Give STL Day](https://lfcsmo.org/event/give-stl-day/) - [Estate Planning Seminar](https://lfcsmo.org/event/estate-planning-seminar-2/) - Join us for a FREE and informative discussion about reducing estate taxes, avoiding probate and providing for heirs. Kirk Mueller, Senior Gift Planning Counselor from LCMS Foundation, will share valuable tips on estate planning with friends of Lutheran Family and Children’s Services. Mark your calendars and plan to attend! Tuesday, May 3, 2016 5:30 pm – 8:00 - [2016 Golf Tournament](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2016-hope-fore-families-golf-tournament/) - TODAY'S TOURNAMENT WILL OCCUR RAIN OR SHINE! Please join us for the 15th Annual LFCS Hope fore Families Golf Tournament! Monday, May 16, 2016 18-Hole, 4-Player Team Scramble $275/Player $1,100/Team Tournament Schedule Registration - 10:30 AM Lunch - 11:00 AM Tee-Off - 12:00 PM Cocktail Party, Awards & Auction - 5:30 PM Dinner - - [Estate Planning: Faithful Stewards. Lasting Impact.](https://lfcsmo.org/event/estate-planning-seminar/) - Join us for a FREE and informative discussion about your passion, your plan, your gift for those you love and God's work in the world. Stephen E. Phelps, MA, CFRE, Regional Gift Planner with Lutheran Planned Giving, will share valuable tips on estate planning with friends of Lutheran Family and Children's Services. Mark your calendars and - [3rd Annual Trivia Night](https://lfcsmo.org/event/3rd-annual-trivia-night/) - Join us February 27, 2016 for a fun night for LFCS! Hope Lutheran Church 1975 Old Highway 94 South Saint Charles, MO 63303 Doors open at 6:00 PM Print and complete the 2016 Trivia Night Brochure and send it to the address above. Additional Details: Teams of 8 players $25 per person or $200 per - [Ladies Night Out to benefit LFCS](https://lfcsmo.org/event/ladies-night-out-to-benefit-lfcs/) - Join us poolside at the home of Christine Homan! 2100 W. Warson Road CLICK HERE to make your reservation today! $40 per person Includes Valet Parking, Cocktails and Hors d'oeuvres If you don't pay online, please RSVP by emailing Megan or calling 314-754-2785. Checks can be made payable to 'LFCS Foundation' and mailed to the - [Flood Relief ~ Donate Now](https://lfcsmo.org/event/flood-relief-donate-now/) - [Helping Hands Dinner and Auction](https://lfcsmo.org/event/helping-hands-dinner-and-auction/) - See you tomorrow night! Announcing the 33rd Annual LFCS 'Helping Hands Auction and Dinner' Saturday, August 22, 2015 The Four Seasons Hotel 999 North Second Street St. Louis, Missouri 63102 $150 per person $1,500 per table Click here to make your online reservation. Click here to email Megan Nichols or call her at (314)754-2785 for - [You're My Cup of Tea](https://lfcsmo.org/event/youre-my-cup-of-tea/) - Join us for our "You're My Cup of Tea" event as we celebrate motherhood. Kids are welcome! When: Saturday, May 16 from 10:00 - 11:30 a.m. Where: Country Club of Missouri Events Center/Forum Boulevard Tickets are $15 and include tea, juice, treats and children's crafts! RSVP by May 8, 2015 Donations of diapers and wipes are - [LFCS Lobby Day](https://lfcsmo.org/event/lfcs-lobby-day/) - Every year, LFCS staff and board members from all our regions head to Jefferson City to meet with legislators and discuss issues impacting our clients; particularly children in foster care, adoptive families, pregnant women, and low income families with young children. This is a great opportunity to meet with legislators face to face and raise - [Caregivers' Night Out ~ Cape Girardeau](https://lfcsmo.org/event/caregivers-night-cape-girardeau/) - Caregivers' Night Out If you are the primary caregiver for someone with Alzheimer's (or another form of dementia), then you may very well need a break and a chance to get away. This is the perfect opportunity for you: an overnight event with an evening of sharing, laughing, relaxing, reflecting, playing games and gathering new - [Hope fore Families Golf Tournament](https://lfcsmo.org/event/save-date-hope-fore-families-golf-tournament/) - Mark your calendars for our 14th Annual Hope fore Families Golf Tournament. When: Monday, May 18, 2015 Where: Forest Park ~ St. Louis For more information on playing or sponsoring, email Megan Nichols or contact her at 314-754-2785. Click here to register! - [2nd Annual LFCS Trivia Night ~ St. Charles](https://lfcsmo.org/event/2nd-annual-lfcs-st-charles-trivia-night/) - Click Here for a downloadable event flyer: 2015 Trivia Night Brochure What: A fun night out with family and friends hosted by Hope Lutheran Church to benefit the services of LFCS in St. Charles County. When: Saturday, February 21, 2015 Doors open at 6:00 p.m. Trivia begins at 6:30 p.m. Where: Hope Lutheran Church Gymnasium - [No Room in the Inn ~ Color Art & Experitec Employees](https://lfcsmo.org/event/room-inn-color-art-experitec-employees/) - [2015 Wine Tasting Party ~ SOLD OUT](https://lfcsmo.org/event/wine-tasting-party/) - Wine Tasting Party We are SORRY, but this event is SOLD OUT. Saturday, February 7, 2015 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. Racquet Club of Saint Louis 476 North Kingshighway St. Louis, MO 63108 If you are unable to attend, you can still order wine! Wine List Coming Soon. Orders will need to be received by Friday, - [Season of Sharing ~ Statewide Opportunities for Holiday Giving](https://lfcsmo.org/event/season-sharing/) - Help LFCS with our Annual Season of Sharing! Each of our regions helps families-in-need a little differently. St. Louis ~ What We Need: We are conducting a gift card drive. 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